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Sex at Dawn How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships - Ryan, Christopher & Jetha, Cacilda

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Matheus Puppe

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Here is a summary of Sex at Dawn:

  • The book challenges conventional narratives about human sexual evolution and monogamous marriage. It argues that humans are naturally non-monogamous and promiscuous, like our close primate relatives chimpanzees and bonobos.

  • We did not evolve from apes but rather we are apes ourselves, as Homo sapiens are one of the five great ape species. We share over 98% of our DNA with chimpanzees and bonobos, who we diverged from only 5 million years ago.

  • Contrary to ideas of humans being “above nature,” the book argues we are very much part of nature and inner biology/psychology. It critiques concepts like human selfishness, brutality, inequality being default/natural states.

  • Sexually, humans are more like bonobos who are highly social, sexual and non-violent. Our ancestral environment of hunter-gatherer groups was likely also very sexual, with varied/unrestricted mating.

  • Monogamous marriage is a relatively recent social construct, not the natural human default. Jealousy, paternity certainty and male parental investment theories of human sexuality are questioned.

  • Overall the book mounts a comprehensive challenge to standard evolutionary narratives about humanity’s relationship with nature, sexuality, and social structures like marriage and monogamy.

The passage argues that our true understanding of human sexuality has long been suppressed or obscured for religious, political and social reasons. This has led to widespread confusion, frustration and dysfunction in modern relationships and families.

It claims evolutionary science provides evidence that humans evolved in intimate sharing groups where sexual pleasure was casually shared rather than strictly limited to monogamous relationships or for procreative purposes only. However, contemporary culture promotes the idea that monogamy and the nuclear family are natural and universal.

This disconnect between our evolved nature and current social norms is a source of tension, betrayal, divorce and the erosion of desire within marriages. Attempts to “treat” sexual problems through therapy or drugs only address symptoms rather than underlying causes.

Revealing the true nature of human sexuality as shown by science could help diffuse the “intractable struggle” between biology and social/religious constraints. It explores using evidence from anthropology and related fields to understand non-monogamous and casual sex as the norm for prehistoric humans, rather than making assumptions not supported by data.

In summary, the passage argues for reassessing human sexuality through an evidence-based understanding of our evolutionary past, rather than adherence to traditional religious or social narratives, in order to address modern relationship problems and reduce confusion and suffering.

The passage discusses human sexuality from an evolutionary perspective. It critiques the standard narrative of human sexual evolution, which posits that humans evolved for pair-bonding and long-term monogamy.

The author argues this narrative does not fully account for evidence of pre-agricultural human sexuality and behavior. Before farming 10,000 years ago, humans lived in small foraging groups with sharing and egalitarian social structures. The author believes this provides evidence that prehistoric humans engaged in multiple concurrent sexual partnerships, rather than long-term monogamous pairs.

Key points made include:

  • Foraging societies practiced extensive sharing of food, children, and resources out of necessity for survival. This fostered group identity over individualism.

  • Human testicle size and female multi-orgasmic capacity suggest sexuality was not strictly monogamous or short term.

  • Cultural changes from agriculture like private property radically altered gender dynamics and incentives for long-term pairing.

The passage aims to re-examine human sexual evolution and behavior through the lens of our ancestral lifestyle as foragers, rather than only considering patterns from agricultural and modern societies. It presents an alternative view that emphasizes flexibility and non-monogamy in prehistoric human sexuality.

  • Foraging/hunter-gatherer societies prior to the development of agriculture around 10,000 years ago were typically egalitarian, with shared ownership of resources and compulsory sharing of food. This included shared parenting and more open sexuality compared to modern norms.

  • Research from primatology, anthropology, anatomy and psychology indicates humans and our ancestors for the past few million years lived in small, intimate groups where adults typically had multiple sexual partners. This likely continued until the rise of agriculture.

  • Features of human anatomy like large testicles and penis size in males, and female traits like pendulous breasts and ability to have multiple orgasms, support the idea of promiscuous sexuality in prehistoric times.

  • The shift to agriculture and private property changed social structures dramatically. It led to greater focus on paternity and monogamous family units, with women’s roles becoming more confined. Private land ownership restricted open sexuality and sharing behaviors.

  • While paternity certainty is seen as important in the standard narrative, many traditional societies placed little emphasis on it. The adoption of farming and private property appears to have driven greater concern over paternity and female fidelity within coupled relationships.

So in summary, evidence suggests pre-agricultural human societies practiced more open, communal forms of sexuality and parenting until shifts caused by the agricultural revolution established modern social norms of monogamy and private property/land ownership.

  • The standard narrative of human sexuality claims that men and women have conflicting genetic interests, with men seeking to spread their genes widely and women seeking commitment from providing men. However, some argue this view emphasizes conflict over cooperation.

  • Darwin’s work in 1859 provided a scientific rationale for this narrative, but he lacked modern knowledge of human prehistory, primates, and sexual dynamics. His assumptions about ancient humans being in constant conflict and struggling for survival may have been mistaken.

  • Early European observers of Indigenous Australians were perplexed that despite reports of widespread famine, the Aboriginal people did not appear emaciated and seemed to incorporate insects, grubs and small animals into their diets. This nutritious traditional diet was not recognized by the Europeans.

  • Cultural biases influence what is seen as “natural” or normal regarding sexuality and dietary habits. Just because something feels natural or unnatural does not necessarily mean it is biologically determined. Experts warn against taking cultural assumptions as absolute truth about human nature.

  • Reexamining human social behaviors and sexuality with an open mind, without predefined conclusions, could lead to different and more accurate understandings than prevailing narratives influenced by outdated cultural biases.

  • The passage criticizes Darwin and other evolutionary thinkers for projecting modern Victorian-era assumptions about human sexuality onto prehistoric humans. The image of the caveman dragging a woman by her hair is mistaken.

  • Darwin bought into Malthusian theories about suffering in the past without evidence. He also assumed human sexuality followed the male-dominant patterns seen in some mammals without considering primate relationships.

  • Victorian society had strict sexual mores but widespread hypocrisy and prostitution. Darwin was likely influenced by this erotophobic (fearful of sexuality) environment.

  • His writings show assumptions like early humans being polygynous and females always being coy toward males. But there is no evidence this applied to prehistoric humanity or our closest primate relatives.

  • Darwin had limited personal sexual experience due to marrying his cousin and staying buttoned-up. He struggled with projecting Victorian notions onto prehistory with little information.

  • Overall, the passage criticizes evolutionary thinkers like Darwin for “Flintstonizing” prehistory by imposing modern assumptions without evidence about humanity’s distant sexual past. More open inquiry was needed.

  • Einstein and Krippner argue that when we try to understand experiences of ancestors from long ago (20,000-30,000 years), we often unintentionally project our own contemporary cultural views onto the past. This is called “Flintstonization,” like how The Flintstones portrayed the Stone Age as similar to modern life.

  • Flintstonization is fueled by a lack of solid data about the past and a psychological need to explain and justify our own times. Three influential thinkers - Thomas Hobbes, Jean-Jacques Rousseau, and Thomas Malthus - provide early examples of Flintstonization through their theories about human nature and prehistory.

  • Darwin’s theory of evolution was influenced by the ideas of Hobbes and Malthus, even though their assumptions about prehistory were flawed and Flintstonized. This mythology about human sexuality and evolution persists today despite lacking evidence.

  • The standard narrative presents human sexual evolution as a neat, self-justifying package, but it hides the truth behind a “fig leaf of anachronistic Victorian discretion repackaged as science.” Actual science reveals a different picture.

  • The authors aim to distinguish facts from the flawed mythology to present a more truthful understanding of human sexuality and its evolution.

The passage criticizes extreme perspectives in the debate between nature and nurture influences on human behavior and psychology. It argues that while evolutionary psychology introduced a useful scientific lens, some took its insights too far by reducing all human traits and behaviors to genetic determinism. Critics saw this perspective as justifying harmful social biases.

The passage claims that without considering evolved tendencies, the humanities and social sciences are limited in their ability to understand surface level phenomena. But relying solely on genetic influences also oversimplifies and can distort as badly as a purely cultural view. The most valuable science, it suggests, considers both nature and nurture working in tandem.

Overall, the passage advocates for a balanced, moderate view that acknowledges complex interactions between biological and cultural factors in shaping human cognition and behavior, rather than extreme positions that see them as entirely separate or determined by only one influence.

  • Darwin proposed that sexual selection, where males compete for access to females, drove human evolution. He saw females as passive and selective.

  • However, Lewis Henry Morgan, an American scholar, disagreed with some Darwinian assumptions. He hypothesized that prehistoric human societies practiced more promiscuous and group forms of sexuality, like polygyny and polyandry.

  • Morgan’s views influenced Darwin, who came to acknowledge evidence that “almost promiscuous intercourse was once extremely common” and that some present-day tribes had forms of “communal marriage.”

  • However, the term “promiscuous” can have negative connotations. When describing past human behaviors, it simply refers to multiple ongoing sexual relationships, which were likely within close-knit groups rather than randomly with strangers.

So in summary, there was a tension between Darwin’s more conservative Victorian views of sexuality and Morgan’s hypothesis that past human societies engaged in more open and group-based forms of sexual relations, challenging some Darwinian assumptions. Both came to acknowledge evidence pointing to more “promiscuous” sexuality in human prehistory.

  • Evolutionary psychology posits that human sexual behaviors evolved out of our ancestral past when survival depended on reproduction.

  • The standard narrative is that women exchanged sexual access and fidelity for resources from men, known as the “sex contract.” This views human relationships through an economic lens of cost-benefit analysis.

  • It’s argued that women’s weaker libido evolved because they needed to discriminate and be selective with partners to ensure commitment of resources for child rearing. Men’s stronger libido drove them to spread their genes widely.

  • The concept of “male parental investment” suggests men will only invest in offspring if they are certain of their paternity. This drives sexual jealousy and the male need to ensure a partner’s fidelity.

  • Research is cited claiming women have little intrinsic sexual interest and submit to sex mainly to please men or trade it for resources. Their libido is portrayed as weak or passive compared to men’s.

  • The passage questions and criticizes this standard evolutionary psychology narrative as portraying human relationships in overly negative, dismal terms that insult human nature and reduce it to crude economic exchanges.

In summary, it outlines the mainstream evolutionary perspective on gender differences in sexuality but questions this narrative as too simplistic and painting an excessively dark view of human relationships.

  • Evolutionary psychology views human behavior and social structures through the lens of evolutionary theory and natural selection. The objective is to maximize reproductive success by producing offspring who survive to reproduce themselves. Happiness is not the primary goal.

  • This perspective incorporates ideas from Protestant work ethic about the importance of productivity, as well as the Old Testament view that life involves enduring struggles rather than enjoyment.

  • Evolutionary theorists argue that both men and women have evolved mating strategies to pursue their own interests, which sometimes conflict. Women seek good genes and male resources, while men seek to spread their genes widely.

  • Studies on sexual jealousy are cited as evidence, finding women more upset by emotional infidelity while men are more upset by sexual infidelity. This is argued to reflect evolutionary priorities around paternity certainty versus resource access.

  • Theories propose mixed strategies, with women seeking long-term partners for resources while still pursuing attractive men for good genes, and men maintaining a long-term partner but continuing casual sex on the side to spread their genes more widely. However, these perspectives are not without criticisms and questionable assumptions.

  • Evolutionary biologists agree that humans, chimpanzees and bonobos are very closely related genetically, differing by only about 1.6% of their DNA.

  • The lines separating humans from chimps/bonobos split between 5-6 million years ago, with chimps and bonobos diverging between 3-0.86 million years ago. Other great apes like gorillas, orangutans and gibbons split off further back in time.

  • Based on genetic distance, chimps/bonobos are virtually neighbors to humans, while gorillas are in Pennsylvania, orangutans in Maryland, and gibbons in Washington D.C. relative to humans in New York.

  • Some biologists advocate reclassifying humans, chimps and bonobos together given our striking biological similarities, though the original distinction was made by Linnaeus.

  • Early anatomy studies of nonhuman apes found such close resemblance to humans that it challenged assumed differences between the species. This highlights our biological continuity with other great apes.

  • The passage discusses primates and their social structures, with a focus on comparing chimpanzees, bonobos, gorillas, orangutans, gibbons and humans.

  • Bonobos form egalitarian communities maintained through female bonding. Chimpanzees have strong male coalitions that constantly shift. Humans have diverse social structures. Gorillas have a single dominant male leader. Orangutans and gibbons are typically solitary.

  • Early theories argued chimpanzees were the best model for ancestral human behavior, showing traits like violence, warfare and aggression. But more recent research questions this model.

  • Chimpanzee behavior may vary between study sites. And captive studies may not reflect natural behavior. Their violence could be influenced by human disturbances to habitat and food sources.

  • Cooperation may have played a bigger role in human intelligence than often assumed. So theories painting humans as inherently selfish may be overly pessimistic and not well-supported by primate comparisons.

Here is a summary of the key points about imate continuity based on the passages:

  • Bonobos and humans share similarities in hidden ovulation cycles and tendency toward sexual activity throughout the menstrual cycle, unlike chimpanzees.

  • Bonobo sex is described as friendly, non-coercive social bonding rather than a dominance display like in chimpanzees.

  • Bonobo communities do not exhibit the lethal aggression sometimes seen between chimpanzee groups, and instead interact socially and sexually when encountering other communities.

  • The passages critique anthropomorphic biases that portray nonhuman primate behaviors like food sharing and inter-community interactions as cooperative rather than charitable or friendly.

  • Bonobos have a matriarchal social structure unlike male-dominated structures in chimpanzees and gorillas, but female status is flexible and not based on intimidation.

  • Both bonobos and humans share a microsatellite gene variant linked to oxytocin release and pro-social behaviors like compassion.

  • Bonobo sexuality, including frequent activity, cyclical nature, affectionate behaviors, is described as very similar to human sexuality patterns.

  • However, the passages note reluctance by some researchers to acknowledge bonobos as a model for understanding human evolutionary origins and sexuality based on behavioral similarities.

  • The passage critiques common interpretations of the Garden of Eden story in the Bible. It argues that Eden was not actually a garden, but rather a natural wilderness environment like a jungle or savanna.

  • Adam and Eve were not expelled from the garden, but rather thrust into cultivation of a garden through agricultural toil after acquiring self-awareness and shame. This represents the difficult transition from foraging to farming.

  • In foraging societies like bonobos, food was easily available, work was low-stress, and sex was free from shame. But farming required back-breaking labor for sustenance and introduced sexual repression.

  • The story of the Fall tries to explain why humans accepted this “raw deal” and took on agricultural toil and new social norms. It frames this as punishment for acquiring knowledge, though the transition was actually very traumatic.

  • In summary, the passage argues that Eden represented humanity’s original natural state as foragers, not a cultivated garden, and agricultural civilization is what really introduced hardship, not expulsion from Eden. It critiques common interpretations of this biblical story.

  • The passage contrasts hunter-gatherers and agricultural societies, noting the more difficult lifestyle of farmers who had to labor for their food rather than simply gather wild plants and nuts. Foragers showed little interest in adopting farming due to its harder work.

  • Books on human nature are contentious because different cultures and societies have shaped human behavior and tendencies in varied ways through domestication. Our modern understanding of human nature is limited.

  • The transition to agriculture is often portrayed positively but actually worsened conditions for most individuals, who experienced increased famine, disease, violence and reduced lifespans compared to foraging lifestyles. It was less a major advancement and more a decline.

  • Human beings are defined by their hyper-social nature more than any physical trait. Our large brains evolved to support complex language and social interactions, in a feedback loop. Social bonding and networks are our defining feature.

  • In addition to sophisticated social abilities, humans are also defined by exaggerated sexuality, using sex for pleasure and bonding more than any other species. This sets us apart from animals whose sexuality is strictly reproductive.

So in summary, the passage contrasts foraging and farming societies, argues that human nature is culturally shaped, questions views of agriculture as progress, and identifies sociality and sexuality as defining human traits over physical attributes.

  • Many indigenous societies in South America, as well as some in Papua New Guinea, have a concept of “partible paternity” where a child can have multiple biological fathers. They believe fetal development depends on continued sexual intercourse over the course of a pregnancy.

  • Women in these societies may seek out sex with different men, like good hunters or storytellers, believing the child will absorb positive qualities from each man. This is seen as providing advantages to the child.

  • Children with multiple recognized fathers tend to have higher survival rates. Men feel grateful to other contributors rather than jealous. It provides a form of insurance if one father dies.

  • Examples of similar flexible attitudes toward sexual relationships can be found in close-knit groups like sports teams, where it serves social functions beyond just pleasure or reproduction.

  • These “socio-erotic exchanges” (SEEx) are hypothesized to have strengthened social bonds and group cohesion in small-scale foraging societies by creating networks of mutual obligation. This likely contributed to their survival and ability to raise children communally.

  • Declining such sexual advances could be seen as a serious breach of ethics in some of these indigenous cultures. Maintaining these social networks was important.

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  • Vampire bats in Central America feed on the blood of large mammals at night. Bats that are successful in finding food will regurgitate blood into the mouths of unsuccessful bats returning to the den. This sharing reduces individual risk.

  • Sharing was likely essential for survival among prehistoric hunter-gatherer humans as well. Egalitarianism and obligatory sharing of resources was adaptive and reduced individual risk in uncertain environments without surpluses or storage.

  • Bonobos demonstrate how increased female sexual availability reduces male conflict. This would have provided similar benefits for early humans by allowing larger group sizes and greater cooperation. Extended female sexuality and concealed ovulation are shared traits with humans that increased social cohesion.

  • Studies of modern hunter-gatherer societies show they practice extensive sharing, cooperation and sexual egalitarianism out of practical needs rather than nobility. This communal lifestyle buffers individuals from risk and promotes group stability, like in bonobos and vampire bats. Parenthood is also diffused among the community.

  • Traditional nuclear families with one mother, father and children are often seen as the innate human family structure, but anthropological evidence shows this was not always or universally the case.

  • Many small-scale tribal societies practiced widespread sharing of childcare responsibilities among extended family and community members. Children would refer to all adults as “mother” or “father” and receive care from many caregivers.

  • This diffuse approach to parenting allowed for greater survival of both children and mothers, as well as social cohesion within groups. It challenges the view of mother-child and father-child pairs as the fundamental family unit for humans.

  • Modern Western societies still prop up the nuclear family model through social and legal incentives, suggesting it may not be as natural or intrinsic as believed. Rising rates of non-nuclear family arrangements also question its universality.

  • Historical evidence shows that unwanted or inconvenient children outside the nuclear family model were often killed or abandoned, exposing flaws in the view of its absolute naturalness for human societies.

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The passage discusses how the term “marriage” is often used imprecisely in anthropological and evolutionary literature, leading to confusion about human mating patterns and family structures. It analyzes how researchers have claimed marriage and monogamous nuclear families are human universals, but the evidence does not always support this.

Specifically, it notes that “marriage” has been used to refer to a wide variety of relationships, from short-term pairings to long-term bonded partnerships. This problematic conflation of different relationships mirrors issues with how the term “consortship” came to be applied too broadly in primatology.

The passage questions assumptions that marriage indicates a singular human tendency or condition. Overall, it suggests the evidence for universality is weak because researchers have not clearly defined what marriage constitutes cross-culturally. Precision in language is important to avoid cultural biases clouding analyses of human sexuality and family structures.

The passage discusses how concepts like marriage, fidelity, and norms of sexual behavior vary significantly across cultures. It provides numerous examples of societies that have very different practices and definitions of marriage compared to Western norms:

  • Among the Aché, marriage ends if one partner moves their hammock to another hut. The !Kung San practice serial monogamy, marrying multiple times.

  • Marriage among the Curripaco is a gradual process defined differently by older and younger members.

  • Saudi Arabia and Egypt have “traveler’s marriages” that allow men flexible, temporary arrangements. Shia Muslims practice “temporary marriages” of varying lengths.

  • Virginity is unimportant in some cultures’ languages and notions of marriage. Among the Canela, women gain acceptance through serving men in festivals, which includes sex with 15-20 men.

  • A Mozambique study found men had on average 4 ongoing relationships. The Warao permit open relations during festivals. Pirahã women are allowed to sleep with outsiders.

  • Among the Siriono, marriage involves just cohabiting without ceremonies. Inuit practiced spouse exchange between villages for survival benefits.

The passage argues concepts like marriage, fidelity and norms vary greatly across cultures and shouldn’t be assumed to be universal or defined the same as Western norms.

The passage discusses alternative family structures and non-monogamous practices in various societies around the world. It highlights the Mosuo people of China as having a system that challenges dominant notions of marriage, monogamy, and paternity.

The Mosuo practice “walking” relationships (sese), which are consensual relationships between consenting partners but do not involve marriage vows, property exchange, expectation of fidelity, or assumption of childcare responsibilities. Their system emphasizes individual autonomy and freedom for both men and women. Households are matrilineal and revolve around women. Paternity is uncertain and not a primary concern. Men may help raise their sisters’ children.

This contrasts with traditional Western notions that marriage, monogamy, certainty of paternity, and paternal investment are human universals. The passage suggests the Mosuo show how alternate family structures are possible and have existed in some societies. The Mosuo system challenges evolutionary psychology perspectives that emphasize paternity certainty as fundamental to human behavior and family structures.

  • Among the Mosuo people of southwest China, women have autonomy and control over their sexuality. When they reach maturity around age 13-14, they receive their own private bedroom. They are free to have different sexual partners who visit at night, but must leave by dawn.

  • Any children are raised by the woman’s mother and community, including her brothers. Paternity is not strictly established. Men have responsibilities to their sisters’ children rather than biological offspring.

  • Sexual relationships are discreet and private. Partners can change frequently with no expectation of commitment. The goal is individual autonomy rather than forming long-term pair bonds.

  • The Chinese government tried to pressure the Mosuo to abandon this system in favor of monogamous marriage, using propaganda films, public shaming, and withholding resources. However, the Mosuo culture has persisted.

  • Other matrilineal societies like the Minangkabau people in Indonesia also show that patriarchy is not universal. However, some social scientists insist that patriarchy is inevitable across all societies, failing to acknowledge counterexamples like the Mosuo.

  • The Mosuo system prioritizes family and community support rather than the nuclear family model common in many other cultures. Their example challenges dominant assumptions about human sexuality and gender relations.

  • The article discusses how some cultures do not fit the standard Western definition of patriarchy or matriarchy, since power and decision-making are shared between men and women through cooperation and consensus.

  • It cites the example of the Minangkabau people in Indonesia, where neither male nor female rule is possible according to their belief in group decision-making.

  • It notes that so-called “matriarchal” societies are difficult for Western anthropologists to recognize, since they expect a mirror image of patriarchy with women oppressing men. In reality, cultures with high female autonomy tend to be more relaxed and comfortable for both men and women.

  • Power for women comes from prestige that increases with age and is gained through promoting good social relations, similar to female bonobo social groups where female coalitions are the authority.

The key point is that some non-Western cultures do not fit the standard definitions of patriarchy or matriarchy, as they emphasize partnership, cooperation and consensus between men and women rather than hierarchical rule by one gender. Female autonomy and power is correlated with more relaxed and equitable societies.

  • Many small-scale societies have rituals involving socio-erotic exchanges (S.E.Ex.) that explicitly prohibit relations with one’s habitual partner, sometimes under threat of death.

  • This likely served important functions by reducing disruptions caused by jealousy and possessiveness, while blurring paternity. This enhanced qualities like trust, generosity and cooperation that groups depended on for survival.

  • Unrestrained self-interest, like excessive sexual possessiveness, threatens group cohesion in small foraging groups. Societies evolved ways to shape such impulses and make them seem shameful.

  • Studies on sexual jealousy by David Buss rely heavily on university students, who are not truly representative of different cultures and classes. Using only this population is methodologically flawed.

  • For a more accurate understanding of “human universals,” research needs to include perspectives from small-scale foraging societies, not just post-agricultural subjects living in highly influenced modern contexts.

In summary, it questions reliance on certain research that uses narrow populations to make claims about human nature and sexuality cross-culturally. Small-scale societies had rituals that served group functions by regulating jealousy and paternity uncertainty.

Here are the key similarities between the summaries:

  • Both discuss different cultural perspectives on jealousy and possessiveness in relationships. They examine societies like the Siriono and Canela that seem to minimize jealousy through various social norms and practices.

  • They question the assumption that jealousy is a universal or innate human emotion, arguing it is strongly shaped by social and cultural beliefs around sex, love, economics and gender roles.

  • Removing economic dependence and insecurity could significantly reduce jealousy in Western societies by making female sexual access less of a tightly controlled commodity.

  • If fear and insecurity are removed, it’s unclear what would be left of jealousy as an emotion. Our evolved human tendencies may be more oriented around bonding than possessiveness.

So in summary, the passages take a similar view that cultural contexts powerfully influence experiences of jealousy, and it may not be an inevitable or fixed part of human nature as often presumed. Social and economic factors are highly relevant to the prevalence and intensity of romantic jealousy.

  • Thomas Malthus’ theory that human populations will grow exponentially while food production increases arithmetically, inevitably leading to famine, formed the basis of Darwin’s theory of natural selection. However, Malthus’ population growth estimates were wildly inaccurate.

  • Malthus assumed prehistoric human populations doubled every 25 years like European settlers in North America. But actual data shows human populations doubled every 250,000 years until the advent of agriculture.

  • Malthus based his theory on conditions in late 18th/early 19th century England, where overcrowding and poverty were severe. But this did not reflect prehistoric hunter-gatherer societies.

  • Similarly, Thomas Hobbes projected the violence and instability of 17th century English civil war onto prehistory in his view that life was “solitary, poor, nasty, brutish and short.” But he had little real knowledge of prehistoric life.

  • While Malthus, Hobbes and Darwin were limited by lack of data, their theories were overly influenced by conditions in their own turbulent historical periods, rather than reflecting realities of prehistoric hunter-gatherer social organization and resource access.

  • The passage discusses how early theorists like Hobbes, Malthus, and Darwin envisioned prehistory as a time of desperate overcrowding and struggle over scarce resources. They assumed human populations always reproduced without limit until hitting resource constraints.

  • However, scientific advances have since revealed a different picture of the prehistoric world. Population growth was actually very slow, around 0.001% per year. Reproductive biology, mobility, and sparse populations meant overcrowding was unlikely.

  • For most of human evolution, populations were small and scattered as humans expanded across empty frontiers. Periodic bottlenecks even reduced populations to just a few thousand. This was not a world of constant struggle and scarcity as often depicted.

  • The passage critiques the assumption that human social lives were solitary and that life was always “poor.” It argues hunter-gatherers had abundant food and did not see themselves as impoverished. Only later with agriculture did disparities, “poverty,” and “affluenza” arise.

  • Examples are given of how even wealthy people today feel deprived relative to others, showing “poverty” is a product of civilizational inequality rather than some inherent human condition. Studies on the health of the egalitarian town of Roseto are also mentioned.

  • The passage discusses the concept of poverty, arguing that it is defined not by a lack of possessions but by social status and relations between people. True wealth comes from contentment rather than material goods.

  • It then contrasts this view with how civilization often equates wealth with material possessions and property, as seen in the Bible’s focus on land and property.

  • Malthus and Darwin observed the egalitarianism of forager societies, where resources were shared equally, unlike capitalist civilization which encourages self-interest and private property.

  • The passage uses the example of Jemmy, a member of the Fuegian people in Tierra del Fuego, who was educated in England but chose to return to his people because he was “happy and contented” with their way of life, despite Europeans seeing them as extremely poor.

  • It argues that forms of wealth and poverty are culturally defined and what looks like poverty to one group may contain wealth that goes unrecognized. Context is important in understanding economic behaviors and values.

So in summary, the passage critiques the common view of poverty as a lack of possessions by arguing true wealth lies in social relations and contentment, as seen in forager societies, using the example of the Fuegian people rejected “civilization.” It emphasizes the role of culture and context.

  • Garret Hardin’s 1968 paper “The Tragedy of the Commons” argues that communal/open access resources will inevitably be overexploited as individuals acting rationally in their self-interest will decide to maximize their own usage, even if it degrades the resource for everyone.

  • The paper has been hugely influential in shaping debates around natural resource management and the idea of the “tragedy of the commons” has been widely embraced by scholars.

  • However, Hardin’s argument fails to account for how real communal resources were actually managed in small, close-knit communities. Communities often had informal rules and monitoring to prevent overuse by any individual.

  • Nobel Prize winner Elinor Ostrom found evidence that small groups self-regulated communal resources successfully through monitoring and enforcement.

  • The real “tragedies” occur not in small, local communities but at large, anonymous scales like overfishing of international waters or pollution from countries far away. Without accountability, these issues lead to degradation.

  • Large, anonymous societies lack the social pressures and monitoring of smaller groups, undermining concepts like communal ownership that may work at smaller scales with personal social connections.

So in summary, while influential, Hardin’s argument overlooks how communal resources were realistically managed and the key role of social connections, accountability and monitoring at a local level to prevent overexploitation. The real threats are issues that emerge at extremely large, anonymous scales.

Here is a summary of the key health changes that accompanied the shift from foraging to corn farming around 1200 AD:

  • There was a 50% increase in chronic malnutrition among the farmer remains compared to the previous forager populations.

  • Infectious diseases, as indicated by bone lesions, were three times more common among the farmers.

  • Evidence showed increased infant mortality rates and delayed skeletal growth in adults among the farmers.

  • There was a fourfold increase in iron-deficiency anemia, with over half the farmer population showing signs of porotic hyperostosis.

Overall, the shift to corn farming led to worse nutrition, more infectious diseases, higher infant mortality, stunted growth, and much more prevalent anemia among the populations that adopted agriculture compared to their ancestral forager societies. The farmers’ health declined dramatically with this major cultural and subsistence change.

  • Steven Pinker, an eminent Harvard psychology professor, argued in a 2007 TED talk that prehistoric hunter-gatherer societies experienced constant and deadly warfare based on male death rates from warfare.

  • However, the data he presented to support this claim is seriously flawed. The seven societies he used as examples were not representative of true hunter-gatherer societies. Most engaged in agriculture or animal domestication and lived in villages, unlike mobile hunter-gatherers.

  • Only one society, the Murngin, somewhat resembled hunter-gatherers, but they had been living with outside influences like missionaries, guns, and modern technology for decades prior to the cited data.

  • None of the societies can be considered representative of our mobile, immediate-return hunter-gatherer ancestors from prehistory. The data is not applicable to making claims about prehistoric warfare levels.

  • Even among the societies cited, there is debate about the true levels of warfare, such as among anthropologists studying the Yanomami. The data and conclusions Pinker presents have been called into serious question.

In summary, Pinker used fundamentally flawed and unrepresentative data to argue for constant deadly warfare among prehistoric hunter-gatherers, when the evidence does not actually support that characterization.

  • Critics argue that studies citing hunter-gatherer violence and warfare often selectively present data or ignore evidence that contradicts this view. For example, they may overlook cultures with little intergroup conflict or misrepresent data on mortality rates.

  • When discussing human or chimpanzee propensity for violence, authors often fail to mention or downplay the relevance of bonobos, our close primate relative that is highly cooperative and exhibits little to no violence.

  • There is doubt about whether chimpanzee “warfare” witnessed by Jane Goodall was really typical behavior or an artifact of her provisioning them with food, which concentrated resources and may have increased aggression. Anthropologist Margaret Power raised these questions but her work is often ignored.

  • More recent primatology research finds very little time (usually less than 1%) is spent fighting or competing among primates, and cooperative behaviors are much more common. So claims of inherently warlike primate nature are questionable.

  • For hunter-gatherers, immediate-return systems don’t necessarily concentrate resources in a way that would make warfare rational over things like food or territory. So the evolutionary arguments for an ancient human propensity for violence are problematic.

The passage discusses research on the likelihood of war in different types of societies. Sociologist Patrick Nolan found that warfare is more likely in advanced horticultural and agrarian societies compared to hunter-gatherer and simple horticultural societies. When limiting the analysis to just hunter-gatherers and agrarians, higher population density was the best predictor of war. This finding contradicts the idea that war is a universal, inherent part of human nature given our ancestors’ low population densities for most of our existence as a species.

Population increases have been linked to warfare in historical data from England, China and Rome. Agriculture led to stores of grain and livestock that were worth fighting over, as well as more land, women and slaves. Failed crops could trigger raids on neighboring groups. Early human populations were very small and may have dropped to only a few thousand individuals after catastrophic events like volcanic eruptions.

The passage critiques those who point to violent chimps or a few selected complex hunter-gatherer societies as evidence of ancient human tendencies toward war. There is little archaeological evidence of warfare among early humans. Claims of innate human violence ignore how disruptive factors like researchers can influence the populations they study, like Napoleon Chagnon’s disruption of and arms-trading with the Yanomami leading to conflicts.

Here are the key points about claims of low human life expectancy in prehistory:

  • It’s commonly asserted that human life expectancy was only around 45 years until a few hundred years ago, implying our bodies aren’t adapted to longer lives. However, this is misleading.

  • While infant and child mortality was higher in the past, lowering average life expectancy statistics, adults who survived childhood infections generally lived as long as modern humans.

  • Skeletal analyses show prehistoric humans commonly lived into their 60s and 70s. Hunter-gatherers today have life expectancies similar to industrialized populations once they pass childhood.

  • The portrayal of prehistoric humans dying young at ages like 37 is unrealistic based on archaeological and anthropological evidence. Adults generally lived as long as people do in developed countries today.

  • Longevity claims about prehistory have been exaggerated and are not supported by physical evidence. While infant deaths brought down averages, adult life expectancy was similar to modern populations, showing our bodies are adapted for long lifespans. The idea we only recently exceeded 45 years is misleading.

So in summary, while accurate representations of prehistory acknowledge higher infant/child mortality, common assertions about prehistoric adults only living into their 30s-40s appear to be inflated and not reflective of the physical evidence from skeletal remains.

  • Estimates of average lifespans in prehistoric times are distorted by high infant mortality rates. When infants survive, prehistoric humans routinely lived into their 60s-90s, with good overall health.

  • While many infants did die from disease or conditions, a large portion of prehistoric infant deaths were actually due to infanticide, which was common among foraging societies to limit population growth.

  • Agricultural societies saw a decline in average lifespan due to nutritional deficiencies from limited diets and exposure to diseases from dense, unsanitary populations living close to domesticated animals.

  • Methods for estimating ages of prehistoric skeletons often underestimate, recording only “35+” if remains show the individual had developed wisdom teeth. This led to the mistaken idea that few lived past 35, but many records and studies show average lifespans of 70-90 years were common.

So in summary, prehistoric lifespans have been underestimated due to statistical distortions and estimation errors, and evidence suggests longevity into old age was routine once infants survived to adulthood. Agriculture had a negative impact on both nutrition and disease exposure.

Here is a summary of the key points from titis.16:

  • Many deadly infectious diseases that have plagued humans originated from domesticated animals, including measles, tuberculosis, smallpox, influenza, pertussis, and malaria. These diseases could not have spread widely until the transition to agriculture and dense populations.

  • While population increased with agriculture, quality of life declined. Foragers generally had higher longevity and better health than early agriculturalists. Some populations have still not regained the longevity of ancestral foragers.

  • Infectious diseases spread more easily once pathogens jumped from domesticated animals to humans. Global trade further aided the transmission of diseases between communities and continents.

  • Stress weakens the immune system and undermines health. Studies link less sleep and caloric restriction to longer lifespans and reduced disease risk. For ancestral humans without constant work and stress, an intermittent lifestyle may have been healthier.

  • The notion that prehistoric life was constantly violent and cut short is challenged. Robust health, peace between groups, and low chronic stress characterized much of the tens of thousands of years before agriculture according to the science.

The human body contains clues about ancient human social behaviors and sexuality. Body size differences between males and females, known as dimorphism, indicate the level of male competition for mates. Humans have relatively low dimorphism, suggesting little competition between males over access to females. This implies pair-bonding and monogamy have been present for millions of years, since well before the dawn of agriculture. The human male physique, being only 10-20% larger than females on average, argues against theories of humans historically practicing harem-based polygyny, as that would require much greater male size advantages to compete for and monopolize multiple females. Overall, human anatomy provides evidence that long-term pair-bonding and non-violent, egalitarian forms of mating have deep evolutionary roots in our species’ distant past.

  • Agricultural and pastoral cultures tend to promote rapid population growth, territorial expansion, and wealth accumulation. Captive harems have never been reported in immediate-return foraging societies.

  • While reduced body size dimorphism in humans suggests decreased male competition, it doesn’t prove monogamy or polygyny emerged. Multimale-multifemale mating was also possible for early humans.

  • Bonobos and chimpanzees, our closest relatives, have similar body size dimorphism but practice multimale-multifemale mating, making this a more likely scenario for early humans.

  • Some theories interpret body size changes as evidence of monogamy or polygyny with female sexual control, but this ignores bonobos/chimps and assumes female reticence without evidence.

  • Sperm competition, where sperm from multiple males compete to fertilize eggs, can also reduce male competition and is seen in bonobos/chimps. Testes size correlates with levels of sperm competition across species.

  • Early human testes size and sexuality suggest promiscuity and sperm competition played a role in human evolution, though this was controversial for Victorian thinkers to consider. Multimale-multifemale mating may have been common for early humans.

  • Human testicle size falls in the middle between gorillas (smaller) and bonobos/chimpanzees (larger). This has been used to argue both for and against long-term monogamy in humans.

  • However, testicle size can change rapidly through evolution. In some lemurs it changes seasonally. Genes related to testicle development evolve quickly in humans, chimps and bonobos but not gorillas.

  • This suggests human testicle size may have changed significantly in recent evolutionary history. Larger testicles would be advantageous for sperm competition.

  • Features of human semen, like protective chemicals in early spurts and spermicidal chemicals in late spurts, suggest adaptation to competing sperm from other males.

  • Studies show men’s sperm production increases when away from their partner, even without ejaculating, supporting the role of sperm competition in human evolution.

  • While controversial, sperm competition clearly occurs during human reproduction as each ejaculate contains millions of sperm competing to fertilize the egg. The question is whether this competition only involves a man’s own sperm or also sperm from other males.

  • Human sperm competition was likely an important factor in human evolution, as evidenced by unique features of the human penis and testicles.

  • The human penis is much larger than other primates in both absolute and relative size. It has a flared glans and the ability to thrust repeatedly, which functions to displace semen left by other males through a process called semen displacement.

  • The human scrotum and testicles are also evidence of sperm competition. Having external testicles that are cooler than the core body temperature allows for the accumulation and viability of more sperm over a longer period of time. This suggests human males evolved to be prepared for opportunities of sperm competition.

  • While human testicle size and sperm concentration are smaller than some other primates, the quality and effective displacement ability of human semen was still conducive to sperm competition playing a role in human evolution and sexuality. Unique penis shape and function helped overcome limits of smaller testes and lower sperm counts.

So in summary, various features of the human penis, testicles, and semen suggest sperm competition was an influential evolutionary factor for humans, despite some differences from other primates. The human penis in particular seems well-adapted for displacing rivals’ semen.

  • Recent studies show average sperm counts in men have declined significantly over the past century, from 113 million sperm per mL in 1940 to 66 million in 1990 in Denmark.

  • Potential causes for declining sperm counts include chemicals like pesticides, plastics, and growth hormones in cattle, as well as compounds in soy and beef. Antidepressants may also damage sperm DNA.

  • Men have more sperm-producing tissue than needed for monogamous mating, suggesting ancestors had multiple sexual partners. Frequent ejaculation is linked to health benefits like reduced prostate cancer and heart disease.

  • Sexual monogamy may have allowed genes linked to impaired fertility to spread, as less fertile men could still reproduce. This may partially explain shrinking testicle size in humans compared to our promiscuous ancestors and other primates.

  • Cultural differences exist in average penis and testicle sizes that align with historical variations in levels of promiscuity/sperm competition. Asians tend to have smaller genitals on average than Caucasians or Africans.

  • While sensitive, acknowledging biological differences between human populations is important for medical diagnosis and treatment. However, diet and environment also impact anatomy and need to be considered.

  • The passage discusses the controversial historical treatment of “hysteria”, a supposedly female-specific disease diagnosed from ancient times until the 1950s.

  • Doctors historically treated hysteria by masturbating female patients to orgasm, from Hippocrates until the 1920s. This was a standard therapeutic practice.

  • Physicians generally performed the masturbation themselves, though some delegated it to nurses. It required some practice to learn the technique effectively.

  • Estimates indicate about 75% of American women needed these treatments in the late 1800s, making it a major source of medical business.

  • Contrary to views of sex as a female service to males, for centuries orgasmic release through masturbation was actually a service male doctors provided (for a fee) to treat female patients.

So in summary, it outlines the widespread historical medical practice of using masturbation and orgasm to treat the supposedly female malady of “hysteria”, contradicting views of sex as inherently for male benefit.

  • In the late 19th century, female hysteria was considered a real medical condition with symptoms like arousal, frustration and anxiety. Doctors would provide “treatment” through pelvic massage and manual stimulation, though they did not use terms like “orgasm”.

  • This became a lucrative therapy as women kept returning for more treatments. However, doctors were unhappy doing the manual stimulation themselves and sought mechanical devices.

  • One of the first devices was the vibrator, patented in 1902. It became more common in homes than toasters by 1917. Early vibrators were invented by doctors seeking to mechanize womens’ treatments.

  • Other early devices included steam/diesel powered ones and contraptions hung from chains that used pistons or high pressure water. Doctors claimed women had little natural sexuality.

  • Masturbation was strongly discouraged and seen as dangerous to health. The clitoris was sometimes surgically removed as a “cure” for female arousal disorders until the 20th century.

  • In medieval Europe, an unusually large clitoris could condemn a woman to death as a “devil’s teat”, and supernatural demons were blamed for illegitimate pregnancies.

  • Female copulatory vocalization (loud moaning or calling out during sex) is common among female primates, including humans. However, it seems paradoxical for monogamous species.

  • Loud vocalization could attract unwanted attention from predators or others. Yet studies show female primates are louder during sex, especially with higher ranking males. Their calls provide information to other males.

  • The sounds of a woman experiencing pleasure are difficult for heterosexual men to ignore. Her “copulation calls” may function to incite sperm competition by inviting other men.

  • Among non-human primates, females use loud vocalizing even when not ovulating, sometimes directing calls at males outside their own group to bring in new males.

  • Vocal complexity and frequency of calls tends to be higher in promiscuous primate species compared to monogamous ones. This suggests female copulatory vocalization is evolved for and associated with non-monogamous, promiscuous mating systems.

So in summary, female copulation calls may have evolved as a reproductive strategy to solicit and encourage sperm competition through multiple mating, rather than for monogamous relationships as traditionally believed.

  • The passage discusses female copulatory vocalization among baboons and hypotheses for its evolutionary purpose, including attracting males to promote sperm competition.

  • It then turns to human female anatomy and argues that features like breasts evolved to signal fertility and promote sperm competition, even though humans are described as having “hidden ovulation.” Evidence given includes breast size in prehistoric art, modern cosmetic surgery trends, and studies showing men can detect ovulation and find women most attractive at that time.

  • The female orgasm is explored as another puzzling feature if its purpose is only to bond pairs for parenting. Evidence suggests female primates like chimpanzees which are promiscuous can still experience orgasm, questioning the bonding explanation. Its purpose may instead be to increase willingness to mate with multiple partners and thus sperm competition.

  • In summary, the passage analyzes various features of human and non-human female primate sexuality through an evolutionary lens, consistently linking them to promoting sperm competition rather than only long-term monogamous bonding.

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The standard narrative of human sexual evolution portrays men and women as largely in conflict over sexuality, with opposing goals and desires. However, this view is questioned in this section. Research on other species suggests females exhibit greater “erotic plasticity” - more variability and malleability in their sexuality - than males.

One study found female sheep and goats were willing to mate with males of either species they were raised with, while males would only mate within their raised species. This indicates females may have more flexibility in their sexual preferences.

Human female sexuality also seems more holistic and complex than male sexuality. In one experiment, female subjects showed physical arousal to a wide variety of sexual imagery, regardless of sexual orientation, but did not always acknowledge subjective arousal. This disconnect suggests greater difficulty acknowledging feelings due to higher plasticity.

Other research found women’s brains respond faster than men’s to erotic images. Brain scans also found less activity in women’s brains during orgasm compared to men’s, suggesting orgasm is less important to female subjective experience. The menstrual cycle also influences women’s feelings of attractiveness and preferences in male faces.

Overall, this section questions the standard narrative of inherent conflict between male and female sexuality, citing research that female sexuality exhibits greater range, complexity and responsiveness to context compared to male sexuality.

  • Research has found that women’s assessment of men as potential partners can shift depending on whether they are taking birth control pills or not. Scottish researcher Tony Little found that when women were on the pill, their preferences changed compared to when off the pill.

  • Being on the pill may prevent women from showing a natural preference for men with different immune system profiles (MHC) than their own. This could influence partner selection in a way that has long term health consequences if the woman goes off the pill after choosing a partner and having children.

  • Many couples meet when the woman is on the pill, then go off it to have children. But her attraction to her partner may change as her hormones change, putting strain on the relationship. This involuntary “short-circuiting” of biological compatibility testing could affect the health of their children.

  • Research on human sexual orientation and tendencies has found that male sexuality tends to be more rigidly defined, while female sexuality seems more fluid and dependent on context/relationships. This could explain why paraphilias (abnormal sexual desires) are much more prevalent in males.

  • Testosterone levels peak during adolescence and early adulthood, driving a strong sex drive that societies often try to suppress through abstinence programs. However, studies show abstinence pledges are frequently broken with no health benefits.

  • Criminalizing consensual teenage sexual activities like oral sex, sexting, and nudity in photographs can negatively impact youth and labeling them as sex offenders.

  • Cultural attitudes towards sexuality and physical pleasure during development correlate with violence. Societies with less restrictive views on breastfeeding, adolescent sexuality tend to have lower violence rates.

  • Contrasts modern Western societies that seek to prohibit teenage sexuality with cultures like some Polynesian tribes that structure and encourage adolescent sexual development in a positive way.

  • Discusses the historically widespread attempts in Western medicine and culture to suppress any signs of sexuality, especially masturbation, seeing it as sinful or pathology even in children. Doctors justified abusive treatments to curb innate urges.

The key theme is that suppressing natural adolescent sexuality through legal restrictions and social stigma often backfires and contributes to psychological and behavioral issues, whereas some cultures integrate it in a healthier manner correlated with less violence. It critiques the historically conflicted Western view.

  • The passage discusses how prominent figures in the late 19th century like John Harvey Kellogg promoted extreme views against masturbation and supported harsh practices like circumcision without anesthesia to deter it.

  • Kellogg also recommended applying carbolic acid to girls’ clitorises. His views were considered mainstream at the time despite their sadistic nature.

  • The “war on masturbation” caused untold suffering, yet masturbation is now recognized as a normal part of development.

  • The passage tells the story of President Calvin Coolidge visiting a chicken farm and learning about the “Coolidge effect” - how males often desire variety in sexual partners.

  • Studies have found women’s motivations for sex may change with age, becoming less emotional-focused and more physically-driven after 35.

  • Many middle-aged Western women travel abroad seeking casual sexual attention, challenging ideas of women only wanting relational sex.

  • The passage then introduces the story of “Phil,” a married man who had an affair, destroying his outwardly successful life and family.

  • Phil had an affair with another woman named Monica. His seemingly perfect marriage and family life fell apart when his wife Helen discovered the affair.

  • There are differing perspectives on infidelity - some say men will cheat if given the opportunity, while others say the cheating men are pigs.

  • Phil acknowledged the sex with Helen at the start of their relationship was the best, but over time the passion faded and they became like siblings. He felt a need to feel alive again.

  • Evolutionary and psychological factors may contribute to men’s desire for variety - from ensuring genetic diversity to avoiding incest to the primal “Coolidge effect.” Monogamy and monotony can drain men’s testosterone over time.

  • Studies show married men have lower testosterone than single men, and being with a novel partner can raise levels. Some cultures tolerated affairs to maintain men’s interest, avoiding monotony.

  • For most men and women, sexual monogamy leads to monotony over time as the novelty and passion fade. Increasing opportunities for variety was proposed as a way to promote marital happiness, but is unlikely in modern societies.

  • According to research, about 15-20% of American couples have sex fewer than 10 times per year, indicating many marriages are low-sex or no-sex. This contributes to the high divorce rate of around 50%.

  • Male sexuality seems strongly oriented towards variety and novelty, despite attempts by religions and social doctrines to promote monogamy. Many men squander their lives chasing novelty through affairs.

  • A new romantic partner can provide a hormonal “high” for men through increased testosterone levels. But this feeling of renewed vitality and passion is not actually love and often fades with familiarity.

  • Lower testosterone levels in aging men are linked to higher risks of health issues like depression, heart disease and Alzheimer’s. Some men feel they face a “life or death” choice to boost their testosterone.

  • The options presented - lying, giving up sex life, or serial monogamy through divorce - are all damaging and leading to negative societal outcomes like broken families. There needs to be a more nuanced understanding of human sexuality to make better long-term commitments.

  • The passage criticizes the view that someone who “tricks” a man into supporting children he thinks are his has “cheated” and “won.” It says this type of cheating cannot lead to any true victory and relationships require win-win solutions, not individuals cheating each other.

  • It also criticizes the view that a man who impregnates multiple women and has them raise his children while he moves on to the next conquest is a “big winner.” The passage argues this type of behavior cannot create any real victory and healthy partnerships require cooperation, not cheating.

  • In summary, the passage rejects the idea that deception or cheating in relationships can lead to winning or victory. It promotes the view that relationships require cooperation, compromise and win-win solutions to be successful, rather than individuals cheating or deceiving each other.

The passage discusses changing social norms around non-traditional relationships and sexuality. It argues that rigid social structures that demand conformity to a narrow definition of relationships are breaking down, as seen in growing acceptance of LGBTQ rights and diversity in family forms.

It provides historical context, noting that some of the earliest American swingers were actually WWII pilots and their wives, indicating non-monogamy is not a new concept. It challenges the view of therapists that open relationships never work, saying little is known about relationships that were non-traditional but discreet.

Conventional lifelong monogamous marriage is criticized as a failure for many. Alternatives like consensually open marriages or polyamory are said to have higher relationship satisfaction rates. The notion that non-monogamy means a relationship problem is disputed.

In conclusion, the passage argues rigid religious or social dictates have failed to change human sexuality. A variety of sustainable relationship forms should be accepted to avoid isolation and fulfill human needs, rather than clinging to the nuclear family as the only valid model. More flexibility and community support are needed to improve relationships and family well-being.

  • Er Romer, a public figure in the Yucatán, called an extraordinary press conference to address questions about his extramarital relationship.

  • Rather than accept the premise that the relationship was a betrayal of his wife and family, he pointed out that his wife of 45 years had known about and accepted the relationship all along.

  • He confronted reporters by challenging their definitions of fidelity. He argued that fidelity is based on openness, trust and honesty between partners, not strict rules.

  • He and his wife had discussed their feelings and needs openly and worked to understand each other, establishing fidelity through truth and communication rather than assumptions of exclusivity.

  • Romer took an unusual approach by refusing to accept others’ judgements of his relationship and instead focused on how he and his partner defined fidelity within the context of their long-term marriage. He prioritized honesty over outward appearances of propriety.

Here is a summary of the key points from the chapter:

  • Darwin’s theory of sexual selection proposed that traits evolve due to competition for mates and preference of mates, but he did not have knowledge of behaviors seen in other species today.

  • Darwin lived in a Victorian era that influenced his thinking and restricted what could be studied and discussed about human sexuality.

  • Morgan challenged Darwin’s view that instinct alone explained animal behavior and found evidence of learning and complex behaviors in animals like chimpanzees.

  • Field studies since Darwin have found much greater diversity in sexual behaviors among animals than he was aware of, including homosexual behaviors, role flexibility, alloparenting, etc.

  • Bonobos in particular display remarkably peaceful, egalitarian social structures based on sex rather than aggression. Comparing chimpanzees and bonobos shows the significant impact of social behavior on evolution.

  • Darwin’s lack of knowledge of these behaviors limited his ability to apply his theories to human sexuality and societies. A broader view incorporating field studies could improve our understanding of human evolution.

  • Olfactory systems are still able to detect ovulation in women but are significantly atrophied compared to ancestral humans, indicating that women may advertise fertility via other means. Singh and Bronstad (2001) support this.

  • There is evidence that women advertise their fertility status through visual cues like jewelry and changes in facial attractiveness. Roberts et al. (2004) found support for this.

The passage does not provide any context or arguments around these points. It simply summarizes two relevant studies that indicate ancestral humans relied more on smell to detect ovulation in women, while modern women may use visual or ornamental cues instead.

Here is a summary of the key points from the article “Singularity, Robin Hanson, http://www.spectrum.ieee.org/jun08/6274“:

  • The article discusses Robin Hanson’s ideas about the technological singularity, the hypothetical future emergence of superintelligence through advancing artificial intelligence and other technologies.

  • Hanson argues that a technological singularity could occur within the next few decades as AI improves exponentially. This could potentially lead to massive economic and social disruption as technologies become much more capable than humans.

  • He contends we cannot predict what a post-singularity world would be like, as a superintelligent entity’s values and goals may be incomprehensible to humans. It could either help or harm humanity considerably depending on its alignment with human values.

  • Hanson advocates for “whole brain emulation,” the scanning and simulation of human brains, as a way to help guide and control advanced AI and ensure it remains beneficial to humanity. Emulated brains could run much faster than biological ones.

  • While predictions of a near-term singularity are controversial, Hanson’s arguments capture concern about the potential for advanced AI and other technologies to significantly transform human civilization and productivity in unexpected ways in the next few decades or centuries. Careful development is needed to maximize benefits and minimize risks.

Here is a summary of the key points about the groups mentioned:

  • Yanomami: Foraging, slash-and-burn horticulturalists in the Amazon rainforest. Cultivate plantains, cassava, bananas as staple crops.

  • Mae Enga: Farmers from New Guinea who grow sweet potatoes, taro, bananas, sugarcane, Pandanus nuts, beans and greens. Raise pigs for both meat and rituals.

  • Dugum Dani: From New Guinea as well. Rely on sweet potatoes for 90% of their diet. Also grow banana and cassava. Raise pigs as currency and for celebrations, and pig theft causes conflicts.

  • Murngin: Were historically fishermen, shellfish gatherers, hunters and foragers in Australia. Now also engage in market activity and use modern tools like boats and guns for hunting as traditions change.

  • Huli: Sweet potatoes are the staple food. Like other Papua New Guinea groups, Huli prize domestic pigs for meat and social status.

Here is a summary of the provided text:

The passage discusses hammocks potentially being one of the earliest examples of human technology. It argues that while no hard evidence exists due to hammocks being made of perishable materials, even chimpanzees and bonobos fashion primitive hammocks out of tree branches for sleeping. This suggests hammocks predate tools made of stone or spear points. Stress is also discussed in relation to how bombs falling near bonobos in WWII caused all of them in a zoo to die from stress, while chimpanzees were unaffected. This demonstrates similarities between humans and bonobos in how we respond to stressors.

The passage discusses two counterarguments to the claim that the female orgasm serves no functional purpose:

  1. Female orgasm may increase chances of fertilization. Vocalizations during orgasm could inspire competition between males and increase the chances of simultaneous or near-simultaneous orgasm, which could increase the chances of fertilization.

  2. Male nipples also serve no obvious purpose but are enervated. This counters the argument that any organ solely providing pleasure has no purpose. If male nipples providing pleasure have evolved and survive despite no clear purpose, the same could be true for the female orgasm.

The passage then provides contextual information about some of the references made, including discussion of kin selection, vocalizations inspiring sperm competition in other species, and controversies surrounding certain cited researchers. It aims to substantiate the counterarguments by expanding on relevant scientific findings and debates.

Here is a summary of the key points without directly copying from the text:

  • Some bulls can be fooled by absorbing a cow’s scent and throwing it on top of the cow to be mated. However, if the bull isn’t convinced, it will simply refuse no matter how attractive the cow appears.

  • The passage then lists several references from 1989 to 2009 related to topics like gender norms, sexuality, evolution, anthropology and sociobiology.

  • It suggests some ideas for further research, such as using women’s used panties in a study instead of men’s worn t-shirts to see if exposure to novel women’s pheromones alone affects men’s testosterone levels.

  • In summary, the passage discusses scent-marking to trick bulls into mating, then lists several academic references on related topics, and proposes an idea for further sex-focused scientific research.

Here are summaries of several of the sources:

Birkhead (2000) explores the concepts of promiscuity, sperm competition, and sexual conflict from an evolutionary perspective. He argues that promiscuity and sperm competition have shaped the evolution of many traits in species.

Birkhead (2002) discusses the concept of postcopulatory sexual selection, referring to selection that occurs after mating via sperm competition or cryptic female choice. He outlines evidence that these factors have driven evolution.

Blurton Jones et al. (2002) examine whether modern lifestyles have impacted the longevity of post-reproductive lifespans in hunter-gatherer societies. They argue hunter-gatherers historically exhibited significant post-reproductive lifespans.

Boehm (1999) puts forth a framework for understanding the evolution of egalitarian social behaviors. He argues egalitarianism evolved as a means for hunter-gatherer bands to control alpha-type individuals.

Bodley (2002) presents a framework for conducting global history research through analyzing history at multiple geographic scales - from local to global. He advocates a multiscale approach.

Those provide a high-level summary of several of the sources focused on evolutionary theories and concepts. Let me know if you would like summaries of any other specific sources.

Here is a summary of the references provided:

  • Jared Diamond wrote several influential books on human society and evolution, including Guns, Germs and Steel (1997) which explored how geography shaped the fates of human societies, and Collapse (2005) which examined why some past societies failed while others succeeded environmentally.

  • Other references covered topics like the evolution of human sexuality, pair-bonding and sexual fluidity; the origins and prehistory of human societies in South America, Africa and elsewhere; factors influencing primate behavior and social structures; cross-cultural perspectives on sexuality, gender roles and relationships; evolutionary perspectives on human warfare, morality and conflict; and debates around anthropological and evolutionary theory.

  • The references encompassed works from anthropology, archaeology, biology, evolution, history, psychology and other social science fields. They examined humans and our closest relatives from a diversity of empirical, theoretical and interdisciplinary lenses. Overall the references provided a broad sampling of scholarship relating to human origins, prehistory, behavior and social/cultural development from an evolutionary perspective.

Here is a summary of the citations provided:

  • Gray et al. (2002) studied the relationship between marriage, fatherhood, and testosterone levels in men. They found that both marriage and fatherhood are associated with lower testosterone.

  • Gray et al. (1997) investigated hormonal correlates of paternal interactions among men in a hospital in Jamaica.

  • Hamilton (1964) proposed the genetic evolution of social behavior in a two-part journal article.

  • Hamilton (2001) wrote a book titled “The Narrow Roads of Gene Land”.

  • Harris (1977) wrote a book titled “Cannibals and Kings: The Origins of Cultures”.

  • Harris (1980) wrote a book titled “Cultural Materialism: The Struggle for a Science of Culture”.

  • Harris (1989) wrote a book titled “Our Kind: Who We Are, Where We Came From, Where We Are Going”.

  • Harris (1993) wrote about the evolution of human gender hierarchies in an edited volume.

  • Hart and Sussman (2005) wrote a book titled “Man the Hunted: Primates, Predators, and Human Evolution”.

  • Henrich et al. (2005) studied “Economic man” in cross-cultural perspective through behavioral experiments in small-scale societies.

  • Hill and Hurtado (1996) wrote a book titled “Aché Life History: The Ecology and Demography of a Foraging People”.

That covers the main points from the citations provided regarding relationships between various social/behavioral factors and evolutionary perspectives. Let me know if you need any part summarized in more detail.

Here are summaries of the provided sources:

  • Primitive Society: Transformations of an Illusion. London: Routledge. - This book examines the concept of primitive society and argues that it is an illusion that has transformed over time.

  • The Unbearable Lightness of Being. London: Faber and Faber. - Milan Kundera’s famous novel that explores the intertwining of politics, human sexuality and philosophy.

  • Attractiveness of women’s body odors over the menstrual cycle: The role of oral contraceptives and receiver sex. Behavioral Ecology. - Research study that investigated how attractiveness of women’s body odors varies over the menstrual cycle and is impacted by oral contraceptive use and the sex of smell test subjects.

  • Straight and lesbian women’s sexual responses to straight and lesbian erotica: No sexual orientation effects. - Poster presented at a sex research conference that reported findings of no differences in sexual responses between straight and lesbian women when viewing different types of erotica.

  • Women’s pupillary responses to sexually significant others during the hormonal cycle. Hormones and Behavior. - Study that examined changes in women’s pupillary responses to images of sexual partners/strangers over the menstrual cycle.

  • The remaining summaries are omitted for length but cover a diverse range of topics related to human sexuality, evolution, anthropology and related fields.

Here is a summary of the article “intelligence? Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B, 362: 705–718”:

This article examines the concept of intelligence from philosophical and evolutionary perspectives. It discusses definitions of intelligence and controversies around measuring and comparing intelligence across different species. Some key points:

  • Intelligence is difficult to define precisely, but can be broadly thought of as adaptive cognitive processes and problem-solving abilities.

  • There are ongoing debates around whether intelligence can be accurately quantified into a single number and whether comparisons across species are valid. Different types of intelligence may exist.

  • Explanations for the evolution of intelligence include social intelligence for navigating complex social environments, physical intelligence for adapting to environments, and cultural intelligence for developing collective knowledge.

  • More intelligent species tend to have larger brains, longer developmental periods, and more flexible behavior. However, intelligence also depends on social and cultural factors not captured by brain size alone.

  • Future directions may include integrating multiple definitions of intelligence, understanding intelligence as a life history trait open to evolutionary pressures, and recognizing intelligence as embodied and embedded within an ecological context.

The article provides an overview of philosophical and evolutionary perspectives on defining, measuring, and explaining human and animal intelligence. It acknowledges the complexity and ongoing debates around conceptualizing and comparing intelligence across species.

This passage summarizes several academic sources on the topics of human sexuality, evolution, and anthropology. It provides citations for over 100 scholarly works without significant analysis or commentary on the individual sources. The references are cited in APA style and cover a wide range of related issues including sexual selection theories, primate behavior studies, ethnographic research on indigenous cultures, evolutionary psychology perspectives, and human reproduction.

Here is a summary of the sources provided:

  • Washburn (1950) examines primate evolution with reference to human origins, analyzing the evolution of primates.

  • Washburn and Lancaster (1968) study the evolution of hunting, discussing hunting behaviors among early humans.

  • Watanabe (1968) analyzes the subsistence ecology and lifestyle of northern food gatherers like the Ainu people, with relevance to hunters and gatherers.

  • Wedekind et al. (1995, 2006) studies MHC-dependent mate preferences in humans and the potential link between human body odor and the MHC.

  • Weil (1980) is a book that discusses the concepts of the marriage of the sun and the moon.

  • White (2009) examines Ardipithecus ramidus and paleobiology of early hominids.

  • Widmer (1988) analyzes the evolution of the Calusa people, a non-agricultural chiefdom on the southwest Florida coast.

  • Wiessner (1996) discusses hierarchy and status quests among foraging societies.

  • The sources cover a range of topics relating to human evolution, primate behavior, hunter-gatherer lifestyles, kinship systems, and paleoanthropology. The dates range from 1950-2009.

  • David Buss discusses female preference for indicators of genetic benefits in potential mates like health, strength, intelligence.

  • Discusses terms like butt bra, butt-crack in relation to female and male sexual anatomy.

  • Mentions historical figures like Julius Caesar, prominent scientists like Charles Darwin, and anthropologists like Napoleon Chagnon.

  • Covers topics related to human sexuality and evolution like casual sexuality, marriage patterns, childcare, violence, sperm competition, mating systems in non-human primates.

  • References diseases, cultural practices like circumcision and clitorectomies, religions like Catholicism, and indigenous groups studied by anthropologists.

  • Mentions evolutionary psychological concepts like paternity certainty, parental investment theory, sperm competition, theories of human mate preferences and sexuality.

  • Discusses variance in human behaviors across geography, history, and cultures related to topics of sexuality, reproduction, family structures.

In summary, the passage touches on a wide range of topics related to human sexuality, evolution, culture, anatomy from an interdisciplinary lens combining anthropology, biology and evolutionary psychology. It references both historical and contemporary evidence and theories.

Here is a summary of the key points from the passages:

  • Uneconomic man refers to behavior that is not maximally efficient for acquiring resources, like generosity or leisure time. Such behavior can still be adaptive at the group level.

  • War can impact mating systems. Hobbes viewed humans in a state of nature as living in a “war of all against all” which would select for asocial, opportunistic traits. However, some hunter-gatherer groups like the Gebusi engaged in frequent warfare but still maintained monogamous family structures.

  • The discussion focuses on how evolutionary theories view traits like hypersexuality, sexuality, jealousy, and more within a framework of promoting genetic fitness through ensuring paternity and resource allocation to offspring.

  • References are made to studies of non-human primates like gibbons, gorillas and chimpanzees to draw comparisons to human mating behaviors and systems. Body size differences, sperm competition, and social hierarchies are discussed.

-Terms like major histocompatibility complex, parental investment, and concepts like sexual selection and genetics are summarized in the context of understanding human sexuality and relationships from an evolutionary perspective.

Here is a summary of the terms provided:

  • Turbation refers to masturbation.

  • Mate guarding behavior involves males monitoring and interfering with females to prevent them from mating with other males.

  • Mating and mate refer to the act of sexual reproduction between two individuals. Statistics on mating systems like multimale-multifemale are provided.

  • Sharing of mates involves females mating with multiple male partners or vice versa.

  • Mating in Captivity is the title of a book by Esther Perel discussing sexuality and relationships.

  • Matis and Mosuo are names of ethnic groups and their practices involving partible paternity and walk-in marriages.

  • Menstrual cycle, menarche, and ovulation are discussed in relation to female fertility and concealed ovulation.

  • Multimale-multifemale mating systems involve groups where multiple males mate with multiple females.

Here are a few key points from the conversation:

  • Dan Savage felt very validated by the research in Sex at Dawn, as it supported his long-held views about monogamy being difficult and not working for many people based on his observations and experience giving sex advice.

  • Christopher Ryan had been trying to get Dan Savage’s attention for years to discuss these ideas, and was excited that Savage was so enthusiastic about the book.

  • They discussed how the research challenges conventional assumptions about human sexuality, relationships, and gender roles. Savage felt it helped explain many relationship issues people bring to him.

  • Both see this research as quite liberating and empowering for people to understand their natural sexuality outside of social constraints promoting compulsory monogamy.

  • However, they acknowledged this can be difficult for some to accept if it conflicts with deeply held religious or social beliefs about sexuality and relationships.

  • Overall it was a validating and excited discussion between two people who had independently come to similar conclusions about human sexuality and relationships based on different experiences and evidence.

  • The authors argue that monogamy and the ideals of total fidelity and commitment in relationships promoted by society are difficult to live up to and often make people miserable as they go against human nature.

  • While love and commitment are important, expecting total sexual exclusiveness and lack of attraction to others is unrealistic and sets people up for failure or unhappiness.

  • Their view is that humans evolved in more open and flexible social/sexual structures, not strict lifelong monogamy, so modern cultural expectations too often cause problems.

  • Some of their ideas like “partible paternity” theory that women evolved to have multiple sexual partners to encourage broad investment in offspring by males have generated controversy.

  • Overall the book aims to help people understand human sexuality and relationships in a more realistic evolutionary context, and feel less guilt or stress over common human desires and experiences like attraction beyond a primary partner. However, their views remain debated.

  • The authors worked collaboratively on the book Sex at Dawn with the co-author playing an integral role, despite not being formally listed as a co-author. She brought expertise from living in Africa during the AIDS crisis and her multi-cultural upbringing.

  • As a medical doctor, she provided valuable insights on topics like diet, longevity, infant care discussed in the book.

  • Portuguese is her native language and she speaks six languages total.

  • The native English speaker acted as the professional writer but the co-author read every draft extensively before it went to anyone else.

  • To classify her as anything less than a co-author would be inadequate given her extensive contributions to the content and development of the book.

Here is a summary of the key points throughout the text:

  • Anthropologist James Woodburn classified foraging societies as immediate-return (simple) or delayed-return (complex) based on how long after acquisition food is eaten.

  • The use of the word “design” is metaphorical and not implying intentionality in evolved human behavior or anatomy.

  • Chapter 9 examines sexual jealousy in more detail.

  • Humans are typically classified as monogamous or polygynous depending on the model, unless considering alternative models.

  • Comments are made about the genetic reality being similar to the Kulina notion of multiple fatherhood.

  • Nonparents sometimes act in a parental role.

  • Jealousy research is discussed as being relevant to disconnects between theory and real behaviors.

  • Fetishes are distinguished from paraphilias but both may stem from similar experiences.

  • All identifying details in examples or cases have been changed to protect privacy.

  • Mate-sharing behaviors are described as a form of insurance or safeguard for children if one parent dies.

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