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Here are the key points about Judson Brewer’s experience with anxiety and his journey to understanding how to tackle it:
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Brewer is a psychiatrist who struggled for years to help his patients overcome anxiety, feeling like something was missing from their treatment.
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He had his own experiences with panic attacks. This, combined with his neuroscience research on habit change, led to a breakthrough realization - that anxiety often hides in people’s bad habits.
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He did not originally plan to be a psychiatrist. He went into medical school wanting to combine science and helping people, without a set specialty in mind.
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During his PhD years, he forgot what he learned in the first two years of med school. So he chose psychiatry for his first rotation to relearn patient interview skills.
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This psychiatry rotation opened his eyes to what he could see as a confluence of serendipity and timing that led him to specialize in psychiatry, realizing he could bring his science background to help understand and treat things like anxiety.
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Through further research combining neuroscience and habit change, he developed new understandings and clinically proven methods for addressing anxiety by targeting the underlying habits that perpetuate it. This book aims to share these methods.
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The author loved being a psychiatric resident and connecting with patients, especially those struggling with addiction. Their own daily meditation practice helped them relate to patients’ experiences of craving and clinging.
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During residency, the author started experiencing their own panic attacks, fueled by lack of sleep and uncertainty of the job. Their meditation skills helped them manage the panic attacks.
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This experience helped the author empathize deeply with anxious patients and learn that they could teach coping skills besides medication.
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Towards the end of residency, the author realized very little research existed on meditation science and its potential to help anxiety/addiction. They launched their own research program over the next decade to develop mindfulness-based treatment.
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The book applies the lessons from the author’s clinical, research and personal experience to provide a science-based guide for understanding anxiety and breaking unhelpful habits through mindfulness tools. The goal is to help readers work effectively with anxiety instead of avoiding uncomfortable feelings.
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The passage describes the author’s experience with anxiety in college when they began experiencing severe gastrointestinal issues like frequent diarrhea. They denied being anxious at first.
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After many attempts to convince the doctor it wasn’t anxiety, they were prescribed antibiotics, but the symptoms continued. They eventually realized the GI issues were due to anxiety.
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Anxiety manifests in many different ways for different people. It can range from small nerves before a test to full panic attacks to physical symptoms like diarrhea.
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The passage provides two examples of how anxiety shows up differently in high-powered women - the author’s wife Mahri experiences a low-grade, constant anxiety that attaches to everyday worries and plans excessively, while maintaining an outwardly calm demeanor.
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In summary, the passage describes the author’s own denial and discovery of anxiety in college, outlines how varied anxiety presentations can be, and gives examples of hidden anxiety in successful individuals like the author’s wife Mahri. It explores the physical and cognitive ways anxiety can impact people.
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Emily describes experiencing panic attacks in law school and her career. The attacks would wake her in the middle of the night with physical symptoms like a pounding heart and difficulty breathing.
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Naming and understanding what was happening with anxiety allowed Emily to gain a sense of control over her panic attacks. She learned deep breathing and thought techniques to calm herself down during attacks.
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While Emily had an intense experience with anxiety, Mahri described a more slow-burning generalized anxiety. But for both, understanding the nature of their anxiety helped them to start managing it.
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Anxiety disorders are very common, affecting around 30% of Americans at some point in their lives. Rates seem to have increased in recent decades according to surveys.
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Sources of widespread anxiety include health, finances, politics, and relationships. Over 60% of Americans reported anxiety about the future of the country and feeling it was at a low point in 2017.
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Surprisingly, developed nations have higher rates of generalized anxiety than developing countries, possibly due to more idle time for worried thoughts in wealthier places.
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The COVID-19 pandemic greatly increased reported anxiety levels around the world according to several studies mentioned. Disasters commonly spike anxiety and other mental health issues temporarily.
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Anxiety develops when the prefrontal cortex (PFC), which plans and predicts the future based on past experiences, does not have enough accurate information. This causes the PFC to spin out worst-case scenarios.
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Fear is an adaptive response to immediate danger that helps us survive through reactions like fight, flight or freeze. Learning from these experiences helps avoid future danger.
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Anxiety is a chronic response that develops when the PFC faces long-term uncertainty and lacks information to accurately predict the future and plan. This causes worrying thoughts.
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Too much information online makes it difficult to find accurate information, fueling more uncertainty and anxiety instead of helping people feel in control. Having more choices when planning due to extensive information can also backfire and lead to “choice overload.”
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In summary, anxiety is born from the interplay between the evolutionarily older fear/survival response system and the newer thinking/planning PFC, when the PFC lacks enough accurate information to predict the future and plan appropriately.
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Information overload, complex choices, and uncertainty diminish our brain’s ability to make decisions by overtaxing the prefrontal cortex (PFC).
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The constant stream of information from 24/7 news and social media feels overwhelming and makes staying informed impossible. Contradictory and misleading information adds to uncertainty.
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When faced with uncertainty, the PFC spins out numerous hypothetical scenarios, even worst-case ones, triggering anxiety and the fight-or-flight response when there is no real danger.
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Anxiety is contagious through social interaction - others’ anxious behavior or words can trigger our own anxiety. This was seen during the COVID-19 pandemic and stock market fluctuations.
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Too much focus on speculative information feeds worry and panic. Instead, we need to recognize anxious behaviors and their negative effects to override survival instincts driving them.
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Practicing self-awareness of triggers and replacing anxious thoughts with reassurance based on facts and good hygiene helps retrain the brain through reinforcement learning to reduce anxiety over time.
Here are the main points about habits and everyday addictions from the passage:
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Addiction is defined as “continued use despite adverse consequences.” This applies not just to drugs but to any behavior, including habits.
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Many everyday behaviors can become addictive through positive reinforcement, like shopping, social media checking, eating, worrying, etc.
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Our brains evolved a reward-based learning system that reinforces behaviors associated with things we find pleasurable through the release of dopamine. This helped our ancestors survive by learning what foods were good to eat.
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Modern technology and design have co-opted this natural learning system to make many everyday behaviors and activities highly addictive. Things are readily available at the click of a button, providing quick fixes and dopamine hits.
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Companies carefully engineer interfaces, headlines, features, etc. to be “itch-inducing” and keep people engaged in repeated behaviors that provide dopamine rewards and form habits over time.
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The passage argues we have entered a period of unprecedented rapid change over the past 20 years that has outstripped our brains’ ability to evolve, leaving us vulnerable to forming addictive habits through modern design and rewards systems. Understanding this context can help address everyday addictions.
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Our brains evolved to help us survive through reward-based learning, which helped cave people remember where to find food.
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Now this same learning process can trigger cravings, evoke emotions, and create habits, addictions, and compulsive behaviors.
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Companies leverage this by designing highly addictive and crave-inducing foods, social media, games, and websites.
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Two modern “addiction maximizers” are intermittent reinforcement (unexpected rewards trigger higher dopamine) and immediate availability (enabling impulsive behaviors).
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When combined with reward-based learning, this creates a dangerous formula for modern addictions and habits beyond just substance abuse.
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Anxiety can also be understood as a habit loop, where the trigger is an uncertain thought/situation, the behavior is worrying, and the reward/result is avoiding the anxiety-provoking thing through overplanning, avoidance, etc. This reinforces the worrying behavior.
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Understanding how habits and addictions form through reward-based learning is the first step to being able to identify and change unwanted behaviors and compulsions.
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Uncertainty about future events triggers anxiety as a survival mechanism to motivate action. This helped early humans detect threats.
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Modern anxieties often involve abstract threats without clear solutions, fueling worry. Worry is triggered by anxiety and produces more anxiety in a cyclical habit loop.
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Worrying feels like a problem-solving behavior but often doesn’t lead to solutions. It persists because our brains are wired to reduce anxiety through any available means.
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Generalized anxiety disorder involves anxiety without identifiable triggers, fueling constant unfocused worrying.
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Physician burnout is linked to anxiety fueled by increasing job pressures and lack of training on emotions in medical school.
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The author conducted a study using mindfulness training via an app to help physicians become aware of worry loops and reduce anxiety and burnout. Mindfulness breaks the habitual anxiety-worry cycle.
So in summary, modern anxieties often involve unsolvable abstract worries that fuel self-perpetuating anxiety-worry cycles. The author’s study aimed to disrupt this using mindfulness training for stressed physicians.
Here is a summary of the key points about mindfulness training as an intervention for anxiety from the passage:
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The study provided doctors with a mindfulness training app that delivered short daily videos and exercises to help reduce anxiety. The training mapped out anxiety habit loops and taught tools to work with them.
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Before the study, 60% of doctors had moderate-severe anxiety and over half reported frequent burnout. There was a strong positive correlation between anxiety and burnout.
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After 3 months of app use, doctors reported a 57% reduction in anxiety scores. Burnout also significantly decreased, especially in cynicism.
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The training helps users become aware of worry habit loops and redirect cynical energy towards advocating for systemic change in healthcare.
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A larger randomized study found app-based mindfulness training led to a 63% reduction in anxiety for those with generalized anxiety disorder, more than treatment as usual.
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Mindfulness was found to decrease worry, which decreases anxiety. The training breaks automatic thought and worry patterns by raising awareness of mental feedback loops.
So in summary, the mindfulness intervention delivered via short daily app sessions was found to significantly decrease both anxiety and burnout in overworked doctors, by helping users recognize and change unhelpful thought patterns and habit loops.
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The passage discusses gears in the context of skills development - some people spend more time in first and second gear before progressing to third gear.
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It introduces the concept of mapping your mind by describing habit loops. A habit loop consists of a trigger, behavior, and reward.
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It provides an example of mapping the habit loops of a patient, John, who drank to manage anxiety. Mapping his loops helped him recognize patterns and improve his situation.
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Mapping habit loops is called the “first gear” - it involves intellectual understanding of how your mind works and how habits are formed through triggers, behaviors and rewards.
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Simply mapping loops isn’t enough on its own though - you have to apply practices to actually change habits. And trying to fix yourself immediately after mapping can reinforce other unhelpful loops.
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The key is to patiently map loops to build understanding before attempting to change behaviors through pragmatic practices introduced later in the material. Going too fast risks messing things up more.
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The passage discusses how habit change is difficult because concepts alone are not enough - you need to put concepts into practice through experience.
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It uses the analogy of The Karate Kid to illustrate how Daniel failed at karate until Mr. Miyagi taught him experientially through mundane tasks like waxing cars and polishing, which helped him learn karate physically rather than just conceptually.
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Changing habits requires getting concepts both conceptually and experientially before changing them. Mapping habits out is just the first step - you need to do the “wax on, wax off” work to learn from experience.
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Concepts don’t magically become wisdom - you need to do the work to translate concepts into know-how through your own experience. Thinking your way into habit change won’t work, you need to work your way into understanding habits experientially.
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Later tools and strategies for habit change provided in the book can be used, but only after diligently mapping out habits experientially through one’s own practice and experience first.
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The passage discusses different strategies that are often suggested for dealing with anxiety, negative emotions, or changing bad habits, like willpower, substitution, priming the environment, and mindfulness.
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It argues that willpower likely relies too much on the prefrontal cortex/new brain, which can be overridden by stress and the old brain. Simply telling oneself to calm down probably won’t work.
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Substitution keeps the habitual craving intact and risks falling back into the old habit. Distracting with puppy pictures for anxiety doesn’t address the underlying issue.
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Priming the environment can work initially but old habits are deeply ingrained and relapses are common when exposed to triggers again. This applies to anxiety which is always present.
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Mindfulness teaches awareness of habitual patterns to recognize them as they happen rather than only afterwards. This awareness allows getting curious about habitual behavior and patterns, which the passage suggests is key to changing them.
In summary, the passage critiques common anti-habit strategies and argues approaches like willpower and distraction are insufficient, while mindfulness may be more effective by fostering awareness of habits as they occur.
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Dave suffers from generalized anxiety disorder and panic disorder. His anxiety has led to habit loops of avoidance, worry, and stress eating.
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His primary coping mechanisms (avoidance, eating) provide temporary relief but ultimately make his anxiety worse by reinforcing the habit loops.
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Mapping out the trigger-behavior-reward pattern of his anxiety habit loops helped Dave understand how his brain had learned to perceive these behaviors as rewarding ways to cope with anxiety, even though they were unhelpful.
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By becoming aware of the habit loops (triggers, behaviors, rewards), Dave could start to break the automatic nature of the loops and change his behaviors.
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The purpose of mapping is to understand why certain behaviors feel rewarding even if they are unhealthy long-term, in order to overcome automatic patterns and make conscious choices instead of reacting out of habit.
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Dave’s story will continue to be referenced as an example case study of how mindfulness and habit awareness can help people change ingrained behaviors and break free from anxiety-driven cycles.
In summary, Dave is using habit mapping to gain insight into how his anxiety has developed unhelpful coping patterns, so that he can make changes with awareness rather than on willpower alone. Mapping the loops is empowering him to choose healthier responses instead of reacting automatically.
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Habit loops control our behaviors unconsciously until we become aware of them and map them out. Mapping our habits is the first step to gaining conscious control over them.
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People often falsely associate anxiety with high performance, believing a little anxiety is helpful or even necessary for success. However, research does not strongly support the idea of an inverted-U relationship between anxiety and performance as proposed by the Yerkes-Dodson law.
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We become attached to believing anxiety benefits us as it’s seen as a badge of honor. But it’s important to examine our own experiences to see if anxiety truly enhances our performance or gets in the way. High performers like athletes and musicians often look relaxed, not anxious, when performing at their best.
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When trying to change habits, the triggers are less important than the rewards that reinforce the habits. Focusing too much on triggers can prevent actual change. Mapping out full habit loops is more useful.
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Mindfulness involves paying nonjudgmental attention to the present moment. It helps build awareness of unconscious habit patterns so we can observe our behavior instead of being on autopilot. Meditation is one method to develop mindfulness, but mindfulness does not require meditation.
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Meditation is a way to train mindfulness and strengthen the “mindfulness muscles”. You don’t need to meditate to be mindful, but meditation helps you become more aware of present moment experiences.
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The goal of mindfulness and meditation is not to empty or rid the mind of thoughts, which many people mistakenly believe. Thoughts and feelings are a natural part of being human.
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Mindfulness is about changing one’s relationship to thoughts and feelings rather than trying to change or get rid of them. It involves observing thoughts objectively without getting caught up in them.
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Perseverative thinking patterns like rumination, worry, and craving are common due to the “default mode network” in the brain which activates during mind wandering. Mindfulness can help reduce getting caught up in these thought loops.
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Research has shown mindfulness training through meditation decreased activity in the default mode network, especially the posterior cingulate cortex region. This correlated with reductions in behaviors like smoking. So mindfulness may target underlying neural mechanisms to enable lasting behavior change.
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The chapter discusses the idea of three “mindfulness personality types” based on ancient Buddhist texts - approach/fight, avoid/flight, and neither approach nor avoid/freeze. These line up with modern understanding of reward and reinforcement learning.
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A Behavioral Tendencies Questionnaire (BTQ) was developed to help people determine which type best fits them based on answers to questions about preferences and typical behaviors.
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The approach type is motivated by positively reinforcing behaviors, the avoid type by negatively reinforcing behaviors, and the neither type is not as pushed/pulled by pleasant/unpleasant situations.
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Understanding one’s type can help with self-knowledge, relationships, career fit, and avoiding unhealthy habits related to that type. For example, an approach type may overindulge while an avoid type judges too harshly.
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The chapter aims to show how identifying one’s personality type can aid in mindfulness practice and changing habitual behaviors/responses through increased self-awareness.
The passage discusses how understanding one’s tendencies or behavior patterns can help recognize situations where they may go along with others to avoid conflict or friction. It provides general descriptions of three common personality types or tendencies - approach, avoid, and go with the flow.
The approach type tends to be optimistic, affectionate, and popular. They think positively and are quick thinkers. They enjoy pleasant things and have confidence. They could potentially become greedy for success.
The avoid type tends to be logical, discerning, organized, and efficient. They pay attention to details and may seem perfectionist or overly critical at times.
The go with the flow type tends to be easygoing and tolerant. They think deeply but can get caught up in thoughts or doubts. They may find themselves easily persuaded by others and less organized.
Being aware of one’s tendencies can help recognize when those patterns, like being too judgmental (avoid) or going along with others (go with flow), may be tripping them up. This self-awareness allows one to step back from automatically agreeing with others just to avoid conflict or friction. It facilitates changing unhelpful habits.
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The orbitofrontal cortex (OFC) takes in information from our experiences and “chunks” it together to form consolidated associations and reward values for behaviors. This allows us to quickly retrieve experiences from the past without having to re-experience or relearn them.
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This is why habits are so hard to break - the reward values get set automatically based on past learning and it’s difficult to override. Simply using willpower to not do something often fails because it doesn’t address the underlying reward structure.
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To change a habit, we need to update the reward value associated with that behavior by paying direct attention to the actual rewards and results we get from engaging in it presently. This gives new information to the brain to reset old associations.
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Paying attention without assumptions helps us become “disenchanted” with behaviors as we see how rewarding or unrewarding they truly are. This shifts behavior down the reward hierarchy over time as the reward value decreases.
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This process of direct experience and attention, known as “second gear”, works better than willpower alone because it hacks the brain’s natural reward-based learning system to change associations rather than fighting against it.
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The chapter describes Dave’s continued progress in managing his anxiety using habit change techniques. He was able to map out his anxiety habit loops and see that eating to cope didn’t actually relieve his anxiety. This helped him lose a significant amount of weight.
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It discusses how awareness can act as a “coach” to help update the brain’s reward learning system (OFC) and shift behaviors. Dave was able to literally get back in the driver’s seat of his life by hacking his reward system through awareness.
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However, staying focused on the lack of reward from old habits (second gear) can be painful. Our brains evolved to minimize pain, so disenchantment with disenchantment is common.
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Change also doesn’t happen instantly, despite our culture of instant gratification. Deeply ingrained habits require consistent awareness over time to retrain the brain and groove in new neural pathways. Patience is important for long-term change.
So in summary, it provides an encouraging follow-up on Dave’s progress while also discussing some of the challenges of the habit change process, like discomfort, impatience and the need for sustained effort over time. Awareness and mapping habits is the first step, but real change requires continued practice.
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Habitual behaviors are based on outdated data from the past, but they feel familiar so we trust them even when they are no longer serving us well. Our reward pathways get set based on old information.
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It’s important to regularly check in on old habits to see if they are still providing value or have outlived their usefulness. This is what “second gear” is about - assessing the current rewards of a behavior.
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People can disengage from unhelpful habit loops by becoming disillusioned with them, but they need awareness of the habit patterns (first gear) and current rewards (second gear) to do so consciously.
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Repeatedly bringing awareness to habits helps strengthen the “disenchantment pathway” in the brain over time, just like exercising muscles. It’s about short bursts of mental training throughout the day.
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Making everyday life the “mental gym” allows opportunities to work on habits naturally as they occur, overcoming excuses of not having time. Short moments of awareness applied many times builds strength.
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Retrospective second gear - looking back on past behaviors and assessing rewards afterward - can also be effective for learning when emotions have settled. Remembering the physical/emotional results promotes disenchantment.
This passage discusses the concepts of fixed mindset and growth mindset proposed by Carol Dweck. Some key points:
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Fixed mindset is the belief that abilities are immutable, while growth mindset is the belief that abilities can be developed over time.
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Mindset influences how we interpret events and make choices, and can contribute to mental inertia or groupthink.
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Mindsets are developed through reward-based learning - certain behaviors become associated with feeling better or worse.
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People fall on a continuum between fixed and growth mindsets based on their views of where ability comes from.
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Those with fixed mindsets fear failure as it reflects limitations, while those with growth mindsets see failure as a learning opportunity.
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Having a growth mindset allows one to be less stressed and more successful since you’re always learning.
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The passage provides an example of how reframing failures and setbacks with a growth mindset, seeing them as opportunities to learn, can help change habitual behaviors like substance abuse.
So in summary, it discusses Carol Dweck’s concepts of fixed vs growth mindsets, how they develop, and how adopting a growth mindset can help with challenging situations like breaking habits.
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The passage discusses an experiment conducted by Dana Small, a neuroscientist, where she had participants eat their favorite chocolate while scanning their brain activity in a PET scanner.
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Over time, as they ate more chocolate, their ratings of how much they wanted more decreased from highly positive to highly negative.
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The brain region associated with craving/wanting and aversion was activated both when participants highly wanted more and highly didn’t want more.
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This shows that craving/wanting something activates the same region as not wanting it anymore, with the common factor being getting caught up in desire/aversion.
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Being mindful and paying attention, like the participants had to in rating their experience, can help recognize when pleasure turns to displeasure and avoid overindulgence of habits.
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Bringing awareness to results of behaviors, not just pleasure, can facilitate habit change by recognizing when a tipping point is reached. This was shown to help with weight loss in a mindfulness-based eating program.
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Attitude also plays a role, and having a good vs. bad attitude about a task can determine how easy or difficult a habit is to form. Watching one’s thoughts and attitudes is important.
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The claim that it takes 21 days to form a new habit is not well-supported by research. One study found it took 18-254 days for habits to reach “automaticity,” and they only had good data for 39 out of 62 participants.
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A better way to understand habit formation is through the Rescorla-Wagner reinforcement learning model. This models how reward value memories are formed and updated based on prediction errors - differences between expected and actual rewards.
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When applied to habits like overeating or smoking, having people repeatedly rate cravings and rewards can help update outdated reward memories. Doing a mindful eating/smoking exercise helps the brain register the actual (lower) reward.
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This process of updating reward values through prediction errors is how habits are changed according to the brain’s natural learning mechanisms. In apps testing this, some users reported cigarettes becoming disgusting after repeated exercises.
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Habit changes may happen faster when reward memories are repeatedly updated through exercises that generate prediction errors, compared to relying on willpower alone over a generic 21 day period.
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The article discusses using apps to target cravings and habits related to smoking and eating. Studies found that after using the apps 10-15 times, the reward value of the craved behavior dropped close to zero.
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Combining these results with other studies on brain changes in smokers after using an app, researchers are starting to better understand how the “three-gear model” works behaviorally and in the brain. Though more research is still needed.
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One clear finding is that paying attention is important for changing habits. Simply wishing, thinking, or forcing a habit to change likely won’t affect its reward value in the brain.
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You can’t think your way out of bad habits or into good ones. Changing habits requires hacking your brain’s reward system by practicing attentiveness (second gear) to decrease the reward value associated with unwanted behaviors over time.
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Continuing to practice present-moment awareness and retrospection (second gear) can help drop the “reward” value of behaviors from rewarding to neutral to unappealing according to the Rescorla-Wagner learning model.
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Self-criticism and dwelling on mistakes (the “review and regret” path) does not facilitate real learning or growth. It’s better to view mistakes as learning opportunities (“look and learn” path) in order to forgive oneself and move forward.
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The passage discusses moving from a fixed mindset of self-judgment and regret to a growth mindset of learning and curiosity.
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It suggests mapping out self-judgment habit loops (first gear) to build awareness, then shift to second gear by asking what we get from self-flagellation and if we can see it perpetuates the cycle of negative thought patterns.
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Building on this awareness, it introduces the concept of the “bigger, better offer” (BBO) - finding an alternative to the negative thought patterns that has greater reward value for the brain.
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This BBO is the shift to “third gear” - tapping into reward-based learning to reinforce new, more positive habits instead of the old self-judging ones. The goal is to make the BBO more rewarding and automatic than the negative thought patterns.
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It explains how awareness, developed through first and second gear practices, helps rewire the brain’s reward pathways (orbedital frontal cortex) over time to make the BBO more valuable. With repetition, this can help break old habit loops without willpower alone.
So in summary, it’s about using principles of reward-based learning and habit formation to cultivate more positive self-talk and thought patterns by finding alternatives (“BBOs”) that the brain reinforces through repeated practice and awareness.
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The passage discusses how to break old habits and form new ones through finding substitute behaviors.
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A key part is updating the reward value of the old habit through practices like mindfulness. This reduces cravings.
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It’s important to find a substitute behavior or “BBO” (bigger better offer) that provides stronger rewards without feeding back into the old habit loop.
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Mindfulness can be a good BBO because it trains internally, provides greater rewards through positive emotions, and doesn’t reinforce cravings like external substitutions might.
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Specific mindfulness techniques can help people step out of habit loops in a sustainable way by satisfying cravings for things like food, smoking, etc. through alternative means besides willpower alone.
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The goal is to find a BBO that forms a new preferred behavior through its stronger rewards, allowing the old habit pattern to be replaced over time with a healthier new one. Mindfulness serves as one example of an internal practice that can fill this role.
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Curiosity is an innate human trait that naturally blossoms in children as they explore and learn about the world. It helps with learning and discovering how things work.
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There are two types of curiosity: deprivation (D-curiosity) and interest/pleasant (I-curiosity). D-curiosity involves a restless, unpleasant state from lacking information. I-curiosity involves the pleasant experience of learning something new.
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D-curiosity aims to reduce an aversive/deprived state by filling an information gap, like resolving uncertainty. It can feel like an “itch that must be scratched.” Examples given are getting stuck in traffic without knowing how long or not knowing the name of a famous person.
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I-curiosity involves broader, more open-ended learning driven by interest and wonder, like learning unexpectedly about big lobsters. It’s more about the journey of discovery than a destination.
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Curiosity aligns with reward-based learning mechanisms in the brain. Resolving curiosity activates dopamine pathways, making the act of learning intrinsically rewarding and motivating further exploration/learning.
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New York City installed subway arrival countdown clocks to appeal to passengers’ D-curiosity and reduce anxiety about not knowing wait times, even though it didn’t change actual wait durations. This showed how harnessing curiosity can provide benefits.
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Studies have found a connection between reward centers in the brain and the hippocampus, which is associated with memory. Peak curiosity was found to prime students to remember more information, not just answers to questions.
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Another study looked at how curiosity related to getting information is coded in the orbitofrontal cortex, which is associated with reward value. Primates were willing to give up rewards to get information, showing information has literal reward value in the brain.
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This suggests the desire for knowledge is more than metaphorical - acquiring information follows the same pathways as reward-based learning in the brain. Information can be added to the list of things like food and water that promote survival.
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Different types of curiosity (deprivation vs interest) activate different reward structures. Deprivation curiosity finds the answer rewarding, while interest curiosity finds the process itself rewarding and inherently so - it doesn’t depend on an external reward.
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Interest curiosity is therefore a sustained, internal resource that feels better than the closed-down feeling of deprivation curiosity. This knowledge can be used to optimize curiosity-driven learning.
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Curiosity follows an inverted U-shaped curve in relation to knowledge - too little or too much information reduces curiosity. Staying at the peak requires just enough information to sustain curiosity.
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Curiosity can be leveraged to help break old habits and build new ones by playing off deprivation and interest curiosity. It primes people to stay at the peak of the curiosity curve regarding their habits and experiences.
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The “hmm” practice helps tap into natural curiosity to shift out of thinking mindsets and habit loops into direct experience and observation in a playful, nonjudgemental way. Curiosity is an internal, sustainable third-gear behavior.
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Curiosity is different from willpower in that it effortlessly pulls you in because exploring and learning feels good and rewarding. This gives you more energy to investigate challenges rather than just trying to power through them.
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When facing obstacles like habits or mental hurdles, curiosity allows you to naturally move forward in a way that doesn’t exhaust you by pushing forcefully. It builds your ability to handle new challenges over time.
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Paying attention to your breathing is presented as a “third gear” technique to step out of unhelpful habit loops, like anxiety responses, without feeding those loops. Breathing is always available and focuses you on the present moment in a non-threatening way.
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Checking in on your breathing location and pace can help diffuse anxiety, urges or other habits as they arise. Slowly breathing into the physical sensation and then releasing it on the outbreath can help changes one’s relationship to that sensation.
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Using breathing awareness in this way is not a distraction but rather keeps you engaged with your direct experience in an embodied way in the present moment. It provides an alternative to getting caught in old patterns.
The passage describes two incidents where not paying close attention led to problematic outcomes.
In the first, the author as a boy was dissecting a toy when he got frustrated and stopped being careful with his knife. He ended up cutting his thumb deeply. He panicked that he had hit an artery but his mother reassured him after properly examining the wound.
The second story describes a doctor early in his career who was not closely monitoring a patient in the ICU. The heart monitor fell off but the doctor, not checking vital signs, assumed the patient had died and performed chest compressions, startling the sleeping patient.
Both stories illustrate how getting caught up in a task or frustration can lead one to stop paying attention, jump to conclusions, and take inappropriate actions. The doctor explains it’s important to “take your own pulse” by ensuring one stays calm and collects all information before acting in situations involving potential danger or medical emergencies.
The summary advocates using techniques like mindfulness, breathing, and the “RAIN” method to help pay attention to physical sensations during difficult moments rather than getting pulled into unhelpful habit loops of frustration or panic. This keeps one’s thinking brain(“prefrontal cortex”) engaged to avoid potential negative consequences.
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The woman struggled with binge eating disorder due to trauma and using food to numb unpleasant emotions.
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Her behavior formed an habit loop of bingeing when feeling bad, then feeling guilty which triggered more bingeing.
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She also had a self-judgment loop of criticizing her appearance.
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Mindfulness and loving kindness practice helped break the loops. Loving kindness generated feelings of warmth and care for self and others.
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The loving kindness method involved recalling a role model, feelings their caring qualities, and offering well-wishing phrases while anchored in the feeling in the heart.
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This decreased self-criticism and increased self-acceptance, helping address both the eating and self-judgment issues.
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The passage describes a guided meditation exercise focused on cultivating loving kindness towards oneself and others.
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It instructs the reader to breathe in positive phrases like “May you be happy” and breathe these phrases throughout the body.
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The reader is guided to direct these phrases towards themselves and others, to develop unconditional love and kindness.
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If the mind wanders, the reader is told to gently return their attention to the phrases.
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It notes that practicing loving kindness may be challenging at first due to resistance, but that with regular practice the capacity for loving kindness can strengthen.
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The passage encourages extending loving kindness even to difficult people in one’s life in order to open the heart to kindness over time.
So in summary, it is a guided meditation on cultivating loving kindness through breathing in positive phrases directed towards oneself and others, with the goal of strengthening unconditional love and care.
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Amy was feeling very anxious and trying to figure out the cause or “why” of her anxiety, thinking that understanding the cause would help fix it. However, this was making her anxiety worse as she got caught in a “why habit loop.”
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The psychiatrist explained that the mind cannot be “fixed” like an appliance by simply discovering the cause. Focusing so much on the “why” gets stuck in the past and does not help change present behaviors.
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Triggers are associated with habitual reactions that form “habit loops.” While triggers can be identified, we cannot change the past - we can only learn from it and change habits now.
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Amy’s “why habit loop” would be triggered by anxiety, then she would try to figure out why, failing to do so would make her more anxious, repeating the loop.
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The psychiatrist suggested letting go of focusing on the “why” and instead focusing on mindfulness of present thoughts, emotions and bodily sensations (“what”).
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Amy was given the homework of practicing deep breathing and reminding herself “why doesn’t matter” to step out of the why habit loops when she noticed them forming.
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The goal is to notice triggers but not get stuck chasing the cause, and instead focus on present experiences and changing current habitual reactions.
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The passage discusses how facial expressions like wide eyes signal openness to taking in new information, while narrowed eyes signal a more action-oriented state not well-suited for learning.
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It suggests an exercise where you try to feel angry or disgusted with your eyes wide open, which is difficult due to how tightly coupled facial expressions are to emotions.
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Similarly, it’s hard to feel curious with narrowed eyes because curiosity is usually associated with wide eyes. This shows how expressions influence emotional states.
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The passage recommends using this knowledge to purposefully widen your eyes when feeling frustrated or anxious to help shift into a more curious, information-gathering mindset better suited for problem-solving.
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It then discusses the RAIN technique (Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture) for riding out difficult emotions and urges, emphasizing the importance of acceptance and curiosity rather than forcing change.
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The passage ends by suggesting a “noting practice” where you name the predominant sense (sight, sound, touch, etc.) you’re experiencing to help stay present and avoid getting lost in thoughts. This trains mindfulness.
So in summary, it discusses how facial expressions influence emotions, recommends opening your eyes wide to cultivate curiosity over negativity, and suggests mindfulness practices like noting to stay present and counter unhelpful thinking patterns. The goal is shifting perspectives using simple hacks rooted in mind-body connections.
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The passage discusses practicing mindfulness techniques like noting to help observe thoughts, emotions and physical sensations without getting carried away by them.
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Noting helps create a pause to see what is really happening instead of reacting automatically. This prevents getting caught up in habit loops.
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The author shares their own experience with panic attacks during medical residency. Noting practice allowed them to observe the attacks without adding worry or spin, avoiding developing panic disorder.
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Worrying about future panic attacks can transform isolated attacks into a disorder by associating physical sensations with fear.
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Mindfulness teaches we are not our thoughts, emotions or sensations, and don’t have to identify with them or believe every thought. This helped the author avoid spinning stories that worsened the attacks.
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Short, frequent practice of noting and other mindfulness techniques over time can help work with the mind and break unhelpful habit loops, even for deeply ingrained patterns. Consistently applying these skills is important for forming new, beneficial habits.
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The passage emphasizes building evidence-based faith in mindfulness and the practices taught in the book through personal experience and evidence collection.
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As the reader practices techniques like mindfulness, noticing urges, and befriending difficult thoughts/emotions, they are collecting their own data that shows these methods work. This builds faith grounded in evidence rather than blind faith.
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Clinical trials have also provided evidence that mindfulness is effective for issues like quitting smoking, reducing cravings, and lowering anxiety. However, the reader is encouraged to focus on the evidence from their own practice.
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With continued practice, the skills become habits and it gets easier to apply them even when doubts or urges arise. Noting doubts and remembering past successes helps maintain an evidence-based faith in their ability to make changes.
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Diligence and regular practice is needed to truly embed the skills as new habits and not revert to old patterns when motivation slips. Evidence-based faith from personal experiences supports continued diligent practice.
So in summary, the passage emphasizes collecting one’s own evidence through consistent practice to develop a faith in mindfulness and its benefits that is grounded in personal experience rather than blind faith. This evidence-based faith then supports long-term maintenance of the skills.
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The author describes his tendency as a kid to get very focused and interested in tasks, but also prone to distraction and doing minimum work for uninteresting tasks.
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As an adult, he realized he would procrastinate on tasks he wasn’t interested in, like writing papers just for his career. This led to an unrewarding “habit loop” of feeling dread, checking distracting websites, and putting off the work.
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Through studying neuroscience and mindfulness, he realized procrastination stems from not knowing or caring enough about the subject. Having interest, knowledge and experience makes writing or tasks enjoyable.
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He tested this theory by doing intensive meditation retreats focused on writing. With proper preparation and flow state, he was able to write an entire book draft in 2 weeks and later replicate it to write another book in 9 days.
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The key lessons are having interest in the subject, gaining knowledge through preparation, and allowing flow state (not forcing it) leads to enjoyment and good productivity without procrastination or distress. Building experience reinforces this approach over time.
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The author co-leads a live online group with over 150 people where participants discuss topics around anxiety and habits they are trying to change. They try to cover each conversation in under 10 minutes to get through topics efficiently.
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One participant was struggling to stay calm beyond the current moment when using mindfulness techniques, always worrying about the future. This reminded the author of clients struggling with sobriety.
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In recovery programs like AA, the mantra of “one day at a time” is used, as looking too far into the future creates uncertainty and anxiety. Clients are advised to just focus on the current moment.
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The author applied this concept to the participant, advising him to focus on gaining “anxiety sobriety” in the current moment through mindfulness, rather than worrying about the future. Focusing only on now is the key to breaking anxiety loops.
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The present moment is all we have, so using it to change habits creates new “beads” to string together our “life necklace.” By focusing only on now through mindfulness, we can create curiosity and kindness instead of anxiety.
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The author has a tendency to take things to an “all-or-nothing” level based on past experiences like wanting to be a cowboy as a kid or doing all homework on the bus.
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This drive for passion and focus can be seen as both a perk and a limitation by their brain seeking out rewards again and again until it’s not fine anymore.
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Learning and behavior is based on reward and reinforcement, which can lead people to extremism just like how they learned to tie their shoes.
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Online algorithms that selectively show content based on clicks can reinforce extreme views simply because ambiguity is uncomfortable.
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However, research and the author’s own experiments show individuals consistently prefer mental states like kindness over anger. Compassion may have an innate biological basis.
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Being kind feels better and more empowering than being mean when looking at the outcomes of each. The author considers themselves a “kindness extremist.”
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In a world moving towards extremes, their rallying call is to use awareness and pay attention to results of actions to build a life of happiness, kindness and connection rather than give into hatred, fear and self-interest.
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The author gives a talk in Alexandria, VA and meets with Congressman Tim Ryan, a friend and supporter of mindfulness.
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The author shows Ryan an early version of their app for mindfulness-based smoking cessation called Craving to Quit.
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Ryan gets excited and has one of his staffers, Michael, try out the app even though Michael wasn’t planning to quit smoking.
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Michael emails the author later saying the app is helping him quit smoking. He is able to quit altogether after 21 days using the app.
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Years later, the author checks in and learns Michael has stayed smoke-free for over 6 years since trying the app.
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The interaction with Ryan and Michael helped validate that the app approach could really help people quit addictions at scale. It was an encouraging proof of concept moment for the author and their work.
Here is a summary of the key points regarding trees and anxiety from the passages:
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Spending time in natural environments like forests can help reduce stress and anxiety. Some type of physical exercise in nature, such as hiking, is beneficial.
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Being in forests and nature may help discharge excess energy in a safe way. It provides sensory stimulation that can help ground us and counteract stress responses.
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Studies have shown being in natural environments can reduce cortisol levels (the main stress hormone) as well as lower blood pressure, heart rate, muscle tension and feelings of anxiety and anger.
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Certain scents from trees like pine and spruce have been shown to reduce stress and anxiety levels. Terpenes are aromatic compounds in tree resins and essential oils that have calming and antidepressant properties.
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Simply looking at images of nature has been found to reduce rumination and worries. One theory is that natural environments are less threatening than urban settings, so they invoke more relaxed and positive emotions.
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Spending time in forests may help restore directed-attention abilities that get depleted by stress, as the diverse stimuli in nature do not require intense focus. This allows the prefrontal cortex to replenish.
So in summary, being among trees and in natural settings can have real physiological and psychological benefits for reducing stress, anxiety and restoring self-control through various pathways in the brain and body.
Here is a summary of the key points from the sources provided:
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The orbitofrontal cortex (OFC) plays a central role in processing rewarding and punishing stimuli. It represents the value and salience of reinforcers on an abstract level. Neuroimaging studies show that the OFC is activated when anticipating and experiencing rewards and punishments.
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The OFC is involved in updating reward values based on new experiences. Studies using neuropsychological patients with OFC damage and neuroimaging in healthy subjects suggest the OFC is important for flexibly updating reward values to guide adaptive decision making.
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One of the OFC’s roles is linking rewarding experiences to positive emotional states or “hedonic experience.” Activation in the OFC correlates with experiences people describe as pleasant, and lesions impair the ability to experience reward. The OFC represents both primary and secondary rewards.
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Mindfulness training may act as a “brain hack” to disrupt addictive processes by making people more aware of their inner states and habitual responses. This awareness helps decouple learned associations between cues, urges and automatic behaviors related to addiction. Over time, it can help update the reward value of addictive behaviors.
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At least four actors known for starring in Marlboro cigarette advertisements have died from chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD), illustrating the real health risks of long-term smoking.
Let me know if you need any part of the summary explained or expanded upon. I attempted to pull out the key relevant points regarding the orbitofrontal cortex and its role in reward processing, decision making, and how mindfulness may help update reward values and disrupt addiction.
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Several anxiety disorders are mentioned throughout the text, indicating it discusses anxiety and related topics.
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The “approach and avoid” survival strategy and approach/avoid personality types are referenced, related to how people deal with threats and rewards.
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Associative learning and how the brain forms associations between triggers, behaviors, and rewards is discussed. This relates to how habits are formed through reward-based learning.
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Automatic reactions of the brain and how habits can operate outside of conscious awareness on “autopilot” are touched on.
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The concept of different levels of awareness - of triggers, behaviors, and rewards - is introduced through the three “gears” of changing habits: mapping, updating reward value, and finding a bigger better offer.
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Mindfulness and increasing awareness, both cognitively and through felt sense experiences, are promoted as ways to engage the different gears and change habits.
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The interaction between the old survival-oriented “caveman” brain and the newer thoughtful prefrontal cortex is referenced in understanding habitual behaviors.
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Reward-based learning and how emotional states and expectations of reward drive behaviors and habit formation is a core concept discussed throughout.
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Real-life examples of habit loops and strategies for changing habits, like curiosity, are provided to illustrate the concepts. Changing perspective from fixed to growth mindsets is also mentioned.
So in summary, the key themes appear to be understanding anxiety and habitual behaviors through the lenses of brain function, reward-based learning, and models for increasing awareness to facilitate long-term change. Both theoretical explanations and practical strategies are touched on.
Here are the key summaries from the provided text:
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Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) is discussed on pages xv, 5–7, 13, 14, 42, 45–47, 76, 241. It refers to excessive and uncontrollable worry about everyday life events.
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The concept of “habituation” or getting used to something is discussed on pages 170–71, 171, 172. It relates to how the brain and body can learn to respond less to repeated stimuli.
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Discussions of mindfulness include its benefits on pages 49–50, 60–61, 228–29, 251. It helps change one’s relationship to thoughts and emotions, develop curiosity, and respond less automatically.
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The term “phantom” or “ghost” habit is used on pages 170–71, 171 to refer to habits that linger even after the original triggers are removed.
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“Mapping habit loops” in the first gear of changing habits is discussed on pages 1, 50, 51–101. This involves understanding triggers, behaviors, and rewards to develop awareness and substitution strategies.
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Updating reward value in the second gear involves changing the brain’s learning on pages 107–13, 109, 114, 115, 116, 118, 122, 124, 143, 144–49, 146, 147, 151, 162, 163, 164, 165–66, 167.
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The “bigger, better offer” or third gear for developing new habits is referenced on pages 163, 165, 167–68, 193, 208, 209, 219, 226, 230–31, 234, 235, 236, 237, 239, 241, 243, 245–47, 251, 254, 261–63, 266.
Here is a summary of the key numbers and terms referenced in the passage:
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32, 235, 240, 242, 251 - These are page numbers referenced in the text.
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17–19 - This refers to a page range discussing the differences between reflexes, learning, and anxiety.
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25–26, 34, 112, 144–45, 145n, 148, 149 - These are page numbers discussing the concept of reinforcement learning.
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80–81 - This refers to a specific paper titled “The Relation of Strength of Stimulus to Rapidity of Habit Formation”.
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56–57 - This refers to the concept of a relationship habit loop.
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44 - This refers to the concept of “relative value unit” (RVU) goals.
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122–23, 135, 162 - These numbers refer to pages discussing the concept of repetition updating reward value.
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144–45, 145n, 148, 149 - These refer to the Rescorla-Wagner (RW) model of learning.
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29, 259 - These refer to pages discussing the phrase “research is me-search”.
So in summary, the passage is referencing various page numbers and concepts related to reward-based learning, habit formation, and anxiety from the book being summarized. The numbers refer to specific sections or models discussed.
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