Self Help

Useful Delusions - Shankar Vedantam

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Matheus Puppe

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  1. The story of Donald Lowry, the founder of the “Church of Love” scam, intrigued the author. Lowry posed as fictional women to send love letters to men and then profited from them.

  2. When Lowry’s scheme was revealed as a scam, some of the victims surprisingly defended him and said the love letters had benefitted them. This puzzled the author.

  3. The author initially viewed Lowry as a con artist and the victims as gullible fools, in line with the conventional narrative.

  4. However, after further research, the author began to doubt this simplistic view. He realized examples of complicity between deceivers and the deceived were common, though often clothed in respectability.

  5. The author began to question whether the love letters had genuinely provided some benefit to at least some victims, despite being a hoax. Some victims claimed the letters had saved their lives.

  6. This led the author to challenge his fundamental assumptions about self-deception. Though he had spent his career exposing mental errors and biases, he now saw there were more complex questions around the usefulness of delusions.

In summary, the excerpt discusses the power and paradox of self-deception through the example of the “Church of Love” scam. It shows how the author’s conventional assumptions about delusion and reality were challenged, prompting him to question the usefulness of some delusions.

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Self-deception can lead to good outcomes by helping us accomplish useful social, psychological or biological goals. Holding false beliefs is not always a sign of idiocy, but can be functional.

Self-deception and false beliefs shape our relationships, allow groups to function, and can even predict longevity. They become a response to circumstances, not just a reflection of intelligence.

For many people, forsaking self-deception risks despair and dysfunction. Our existence as individuals is insignificant and fragile, so beliefs that give our lives meaning and purpose help us survive and reproduce.

Parts of our brain like the visual system discard over 99.99% of sensory data in order to provide us with a functional illusion. Truth is not the goal - functionality is. The mind aims to help us survive, thrive and avoid existential angst.

Newer mental faculties like reason and logic emerged later in evolution atop older, more ancient parts of the brain. While rational thought is impressive, it did not replace the foundational roles of more basic systems in survival, reproduction and adaptation.

Seeing rationality as all that matters fails to recognize the importance of the “invisible city” of ancient, non-rational mental facilities that define the boundaries of our perception and set the rules of the game.

In summary, while rationality has benefits, forgoing self-deception risks dysfunction. False beliefs can be functional by providing meaning, purpose and psychological coping mechanisms that promote survival and reproduction. The rational “skyscrapers” of the mind rest upon more ancient, non-rational mental structures that still play vital roles.

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• Jorge Trevino is an expert at providing courteous customer service. He has worked in management positions in hotels for over 30 years.

• Trevino teaches employees to project warmth, sincerity and friendliness even when they don’t actually feel that way towards customers. This involves deception and acting.

• Maintaining that high level of “sincere friendliness” with customers constantly is difficult and demanding. Trevino gives examples of difficult customers he has dealt with.

• Providing emotional labor and courteous customer service involves deceiving customers and self-deception. But it is generally viewed as a positive.

• We are all taught from a young age to speak politely and say nice things even when we don’t mean them. This involves cushioning disagreements with pleasantries and flattery.

• The author argues that while courteous customer service and emotional labor are good, they also involve widespread acts of deception that are overlooked.

• The main argument is that instead of seeking to eliminate self-deception, we should think more carefully about its consequences and when the benefits might justify the costs.

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The author argues that the lies and deceptions we see in everyday social interactions and customer service, while trivial, reveal important psychological elements also found in more serious forms of deception. Politeness, compliments and emotional labor are all forms of “the cushion of hot air” that allow social interactions to function smoothly. While we claim to value truth, we also expect and appreciate people who modulate their views to suit their audiences, whether politicians or loved ones. Charismatic and “emotionally intelligent” people are skilled at this deception, even if they come to genuinely believe the views they adopt to please others. However, such social lubricants also come at a cost of authenticity and candor.

The key points are:

  1. Minor lies and deceptions in social interactions contain the same psychological elements as major lies.

  2. Social etiquette and customer service rely on “the cushion of hot air” of insincere niceties and compliments.

  3. Politicians and loved ones tune their views to suit their audiences, and then come to genuinely believe those views through “audience tuning.”

  4. Charismatic and “emotionally intelligent” people are skilled at modulating their views to please others, though at the cost of authenticity.

  5. While we claim to value truth, we also appreciate and reward those who tell us what we want to hear.

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  1. Some amount of deception and “hot air” is necessary for social interactions and functioning in organizations. Politeness, even if insincere, helps reduce conflict and promotes cooperation.

  2. Small lies of social discourse, like pleasantries and compliments, are common and actually aid in building relationships. Trying to be fully honest all the time is difficult and can hurt others’ feelings.

  3. While honesty is a virtue, people tell an average of one lie per day. These lies are often told to spare others’ feelings or maintain social harmony.

  4. Lies told to those closest to us, like family and friends, can paradoxically be “like gifts we give to the people we care about the most.”

  5. Promoting honesty in children is important, yet parents often resort to lies like telling stories about Santa Claus. These lies stem from love and a desire to preserve innocence.

In summary, while honesty is important, a degree of deception through “white lies” and polite falsehoods seems necessary for smooth social functioning. We balance our professed virtue of honesty against other desires like caring for others, managing relationships, and maintaining social harmony.

  1. The story of George Washington and the cherry tree is a fictional tale meant to teach a moral lesson about honesty. However, the story itself is not true.

  2. Parents often tell white lies to children to encourage good behavior, protect them from danger, and comfort them. This teaches that sometimes we have to lie to be kind.

  3. We also lie to the elderly and sick to soothe them or play along with their fantasies. While this can help reduce suffering, outright deceit is harder to justify with adults of sound mind.

  4. Leaders tell lies at work to motivate employees and boost morale. The most effective leaders are skilled at deception when needed. The issue is not really with lying itself, but when it is done to help people grow versus getting ahead at others’ expense.

  5. We often lie to comfort friends experiencing hardship, vulnerability and failure, because we want to help them. Our willingness to lie rises with how much we care about those people.

  6. In the opioid crisis story, the father found comfort in the likely false belief that an eagle he saw was carrying his deceased daughter’s soul to heaven. But this lie brought him peace and helped him cope with his devastating loss.

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  1. Benevolent lies or optimistic self-deceptions can sometimes be beneficial, especially in the face of immense pain and suffering. They can provide hope, comfort and even improve health outcomes.

  2. Dan Ariely, an expert on deception, experienced this firsthand as a burn victim. Nurse’s lying about his painful procedure and visits from other burn victims helped him psychologically.

  3. Studies show that optimistic patients with serious illnesses tend to live longer than pessimistic or realistic patients. Optimism and hope may function as self-fulfilling prophesies.

  4. However, our devotion to truth and rationality makes it difficult for us to accept the potential benefits of lies and self-deception. We struggle to acknowledge cases where deception could be a “force for good.”

  5. The author argues we are too bound by the idea that lying is always wrong. A more nuanced view that considers the role of deception in providing comfort and hope could actually improve medical care and outcomes.

In summary, the text presents the case that benevolent lies and optimistic self-deceptions, while seemingly at odds with truth and rationality, may paradoxically benefit health, well-being and even survival in the face of serious illness and suffering.

The passage summarizes the invention of the baquet, a device used by Franz Anton Mesmer to supposedly heal patients through “animal magnetism.” Key points:

• The baquet was an oak tub with metal rods protruding from it, meant to channel animal magnetism into patients’ afflicted body parts. Patients would grasp the rods and experience “convulsions” and other disturbances.

• Mesmer claimed the baquet could cure various diseases and conditions, and he attracted many followers and patients in Paris. However, scientists were skeptical of his claims.

• An official commission led by Benjamin Franklin investigated Mesmer’s methods and found no evidence that animal magnetism really existed. They concluded Mesmer was a fraud who exploited credulous patients.

• However, the commission also acknowledged that Mesmer’s treatments seemed to help some patients. They attributed this not to animal magnetism but to the power of patients’ imagination and the effect of the elaborate healing ritual.

• In the end, Mesmer’s “deception” may have caused less harm than conventional medical treatments of the time, showing the placebo effect can sometimes be therapeutically useful.

So in summary, the passage details the invention and initial acceptance but eventual debunking of Mesmer’s baquet, while also noting that the placebo effect of his treatments likely did provide some benefits for patients. The key debate was whether “animal magnetism” really existed as Mesmer claimed, or if the power was in patients’ minds.

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The passage discusses a study conducted by Dr. Bruce Moseley on placebo surgery. Moseley divided patients undergoing arthroscopic knee surgery into three groups: one that received actual surgery, one that received only washing of the knee with saline solution, and one that received sham surgery.

The results showed that patients in all three groups reported similar levels of improvement two years after their procedures. This shows that much of the benefits of arthroscopic knee surgery comes from the placebo effect.

Placebos have been part of medicine for centuries, but doctors did not fully understand the power of placebos until placebo-controlled drug trials became common in the 1960s. These trials revealed that placebo pills helped many patients, even for conditions like depression where established drugs are considered effective.

The placebo effect works through the rituals and drama of medical practice, inspiring hope and relaxation in patients. It is likely most powerful for surgeries where patients completely surrender to the care of doctors.

While placebos have traditionally been used to isolate the effects of “real” treatments, Kaptchuk argues we should consider harnessing the placebo effect more widely in medicine if it can actually help patients. Moseley has incorporated this lesson by communicating confidence and optimism to his surgical patients.

In summary, the passage discusses a placebo surgery study, explains how placebos work through ritual and drama, and argues that the placebo effect should be considered a potential medical tool in its own right.

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  • The text mentions a 1959 study by Leonard Cobb that showed internal mammary artery ligation surgery for angina was no more effective than a placebo surgery. Though the surgery helped many patients, it is now refused due to the study results.

  • Ted Kaptchuk, an expert on the placebo effect, trained in traditional Chinese medicine and later worked as a physician in Boston. He found that patient’s improvements often had more to do with the “theater of medicine” than the herbs and acupuncture.

  • Kaptchuk later studied Western medicine at Harvard and found the same placebo effect at work. His studies show placebos can be effective even when patients know they are receiving placebos.

  • The text acknowledges that deliberately prescribing placebos raises ethical issues and debates over whether deception is required to elicit the placebo effect.

  • Kaptchuk argues honesty is core to medicine but acknowledges implicit deception and self-deception can contribute to treatment success, comparing it to suspending disbelief in theater and film.

  • The text argues that for serious conditions where placebos can help, the “lie that heals” may be benevolent. However, guidelines allowing doctors to lie in some cases are difficult to define.

  • The text concludes that ancient parts of the brain prompt creatures to seek help from others when sick. While modern medicine is beneficial, compassion from doctors and caregivers provides a healing “balm.”

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The passage begins by describing a scene from Penn and Teller’s show Bullshit, where they trick people into thinking expensive bottled waters from fancy locations taste better than tap water. This highlights how storytelling and psychological factors can influence our perceptions and preferences.

The passage then discusses how the placebo effect works in medicine and influences consumer decisions. It argues that the things we buy derive much of their value from the stories surrounding them, not just their physical properties. Companies spend billions on advertising to create narratives that shape how we perceive and enjoy their products.

The Toyota Corolla and Geo Prizm case study is used as an example of how storytelling and branding influence us. Though essentially the same car built at the same plant, the Corolla sold better, had fewer reported problems, and had higher driver satisfaction simply because it cost more and had the prestigious Toyota name. The price difference itself shaped people’s perceptions and expectations of the two vehicles.

In summary, the passage explores how storytelling, expectation, psychosocial factors, and the placebo effect shape consumer behavior and decision making, often more powerfully than physical reality alone. Companies use techniques like advertising, branding, and pricing to imbue their products with meaning and value beyond their physical attributes.

  1. The price of a product can significantly impact how people experience and value that product, even if the product itself is identical. This is known as the price-placebo effect.

  2. Experiments show that people judge higher priced products to be of higher quality, even when they are identical to lower priced products. This is due to mental shortcuts or heuristics.

  3. The higher price can actually lead to people deriving more pleasure and benefit from the product. Brain scans showed people enjoyed more expensive wine more, even though it was the same wine in a different bottle.

  4. People who paid more for energy drinks and beverages actually performed better on tasks, solving more puzzles and working out with higher intensity, despite the drinks being identical.

  5. The higher price people pay can lead them to value the product more and take better care of it. This can translate to real, measurable differences over time. Used higher priced Corollas were in better condition than equivalent Prizms.

In summary, the key takeaway is that the price of a product can significantly impact how people experience and value that product, in both subjective and objective ways, through the price-placebo effect.

  • Professor Americus Reed uses the example of the Apple iPod to illustrate how brands can become extensions of people’s identities. Customers identify closely with brands like “Ford-tough” trucks or Benetton clothing.

  • Reed himself was a fan of the Lance Armstrong LiveStrong brand and identified with Armstrong’s story. When Armstrong was later revealed to have cheated, it was devastating for Reed and he got rid of all his LiveStrong gear.

  • Research shows that brand names can actually improve performance on tasks, likely because people identify with the brands and it gives them confidence. But people are often unaware of this effect.

  • Stories populate our lives, through brands, products we buy and stories we tell ourselves. Our minds are designed to attend to stories through evolution. Storytellers and listeners were more successful at passing on their genes.

  • The author argues we should acknowledge both logos (rational, empirical thinking) and mythos (storytelling, symbolism). Science itself relies on stories and frames that shape our views. Logic needs mythos to achieve a better world.

So in summary, the key point is that brands and stories have a deep effect on people’s identities and performance, even though this effect is often unacknowledged. The author argues for embracing both rationality and storytelling as complementary ways of thinking.

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  • Love and other emotions evolved through natural selection as mechanisms to help organisms survive and reproduce. They are not designed to give an accurate perception of reality.

  • Love causes us to form attachments that benefit our genes, like bonding with parents as children, finding mates as adults, and caring for offspring.

  • Viewing humans as “survival machines” for genes explains why we evolved emotions that distort reality. An emotion like fear teaches us to avoid threats, benefiting our genes.

  • The case of Andre Gonciar spending $30,000 for a kidney transplant for his cat shows how strong emotional attachments to pets can be, defying logical reasoning.

  • Cal Harberts’ idea of a church that welcomes pets at the “gates of heaven” reflects the view that a compassionate god would not deny animals entry based on having two or four legs. Pet owners embrace this idea.

The summary highlights the key points about how emotions like love evolve for survival and reproduction, not accuracy, and how this helps explain strong emotional attachments to pets that transcend logical reasoning. The anecdotes about the cat transplant and “gates of heaven” church illustrate the power of these attachments.

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The passage begins by summarizing film critic Roger Ebert’s praise for the documentary Gates of Heaven. Ebert considered it one of the greatest films ever made despite, or because, it covers seemingly mundane subjects in a matter-of-fact way - interviews with pet cemetery owners and animal lovers.

Initially, the film’s focus on people’s deep attachments to animals may seem absurd. But gradually, the viewer comes to see these attachments in a more sympathetic light, as expressions of human desire for companionship and love. The film shows how people impose meaning on life’s bleakness through their love for animals.

A key figure in the film is Floyd “Mac” McClure, a paraplegic animal lover who built a pet cemetery. His story illustrates that behind people’s seemingly absurd attachments to their pets lies redemption.

The summary then argues that the initial reactions to stories like the Gates of Heaven and the man who built a pet cemetery are shaped by “naive realism” - judging others’ perspectives and actions based on what we ourselves would do. Through getting to know one man’s unusual story in depth, the writer came to see it in a more sympathetic light.

The summary then transitions to telling the story of Joseph Enriquez, a man who fell in love with a fictional woman created by the “Church of Love” scheme. Through Joseph’s tale, the writer aims to illustrate how the deceiving human brain shapes our drive for meaning.

The rest of the summary recounts Joseph’s family history, beginning with his immigrant grandmother Faustina Enriquez who came to the U.S. with hopes of providing a better life for her children. Joseph’s father Jesse and mother Ruth longed for a son and Joseph’s birth was a miracle to them, though he could only speak broken Spanish.

•Joseph’s mother showed her love for him through cooking his favorite foods and shooing animals away.

•Joseph attended St. Anthony’s Catholic school where he felt part of a community and fondly remembered Sister Mary Claire.

•As a teenager, Joseph was shy, overweight and had acne that made him a target for bullies. He had no close friends.

•Joseph gained solace from comic books and monster movies where he identified with misunderstood outsiders.

•After his parents fell ill and eventually died, Joseph felt alone and struggled running the family restaurant.

•Joseph joined several singles mailing services which led him to start corresponding with women at a women’s shelter called the “Retreat.”

•Joseph was initially drawn to Dawn Mayfield based on her letters and photos.

•The women at the Retreat occasionally asked Joseph for “Love Offerings” of money.

•Joseph eventually began corresponding with Pamala St. Charles, an assistant to the Retreat’s leader Mother Maria.

•Pamala’s letters indicated she understood Joseph’s reluctance to open up to people due to past hurts.

•Joseph and Pamala connected through their shared Hispanic heritage and family struggles.

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  • The passage describes Joseph’s relationship with a woman named Pamala whom he began writing letters to through the Retreat Center.

  • Pamala’s letters were warm and personal, sharing details of her daily life and troubles, prompting Joseph to open up to her as well. He valued her advice and encouragement.

  • Their bond grew stronger over time and Joseph began only writing to Pamala, ignoring the other women from the Retreat.

  • Pamala encouraged Joseph to open up more and told him she needed him. She said she cared for him deeply.

  • Pamala also sent Joseph fantasies she wrote about the two of them, imagining activities and trips they would take together. Though sometimes racy, they were rarely explicit.

  • Occasionally Pamala would send Joseph gifts like drawings, poems and small items as tokens of affection.

In summary, the passage describes how Joseph and Pamala’s letter correspondence led to an emotional bond and intimacy between them. Pamala’s encouragement and support made Joseph feel valued and needed. Their budding relationship centered around the warm and personal details they shared in their letters.

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  1. Joseph develops an emotional attachment to someone he has never met in person, Pamala, through the gift exchange they have via letters. The gifts have symbolic meaning beyond their material value.

  2. Studies show that being realistic and connected to reality is not always mentally healthy. People with depression or other disorders sometimes see reality more clearly, while “healthy” people exhibit self-delusion and optimistic bias.

  3. Psychologists like Shelley Taylor have argued that some degree of positive illusions and self-deception are beneficial for mental health and well-being. They can lead to outcomes like higher motivation and productivity.

  4. However, self-deception can have downsides, like causing overconfidence that leads to financial or policy mistakes.

  5. Positive illusions also play a role in entrepreneur success. Overconfident entrepreneurs sometimes set high fund-raising goals on sites like Kickstarter that spur them to achieve more.

In summary, while realism is traditionally viewed as a sign of mental health, research shows self-deception and positive illusions can also promote happiness, motivation and success, though they carry risks as well. Joseph’s romantic attachment exemplifies how powerful self-delusion can be, for better or worse.

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  1. Delusional thinking and positive illusions play an important role in most healthy romantic relationships. Studies show that the more we deceive ourselves about our partners, like seeing them as kinder and more generous than they really are, the happier our relationships tend to be.

  2. Alain de Botton argues that we all “marry the wrong person” but that doesn’t mean we should get divorced. Instead, we need to accept our partners’ imperfections to make marriage work. The idea of finding a perfect partner who satisfies all our needs is not realistic.

  3. Positive illusions, where we see our partners in a more positive light than objectively justified, are common in healthy relationships. This helps compensate for the inevitable frustrations and disappointments that arise in any marriage.

  4. In Joseph’s case, his delusional thinking and self-deception played an important role in falling for Don Lowry’s hoax. But from Joseph’s subjective perspective, his “fake” relationship felt more intense and meaningful than his other “real” relationships.

  5. Studies show that unrealistic optimism and positive illusions can actually improve people’s ability to cope with difficult situations, like facing a serious illness. Delusional self-confidence can be a source of resilience, even if it is not fact-based.

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  1. People tend to underestimate the flaws of their romantic partners and overestimate their positive qualities. This is known as positive illusions.

  2. Studies show that couples who have the most inflated and positive views of each other tend to be the happiest.

  3. These cognitive distortions help keep couples faithful by downplaying the attractiveness of potential alternatives.

  4. Brain changes that occur when people fall in love literally impair critical thinking and make them “blind” to their partner’s faults.

  5. Many emotions, not just love, cause us to see what we want to see. People generally see themselves as more attractive than they really are.

  6. Researchers have identified parts of the brain, like the medial prefrontal cortex, that are involved in producing self-deception and positive illusions.

  7. The left hemisphere of the brain is prone to self-deception, while the right hemisphere is more self-aware of limitations.

  8. Experiments show that visual perception can be influenced by desire, a phenomenon known as “wishful seeing.” People perceive objects to be bigger or closer depending on how much they want them.

In summary, positive illusions and cognitive distortions play an important role in romantic relationships. They help partners see each other in the best possible light and keep desire alive, even though this vision may not accurately reflect reality. These perceptions are driven by parts of the brain that favor feeling good over objective truth.

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The pretzels and thirsty control group saw the water as being closer than the non-control group. Fear can produce similar distortions.

In these cases, reality is being distorted by the brain in systematic ways to produce particular conclusions. These are not just errors but biases designed to achieve goals. When shared widely, these biases can change history.

The Miracle of the Sun at Fátima in 1917 is an example. The huge crowd gathered to witness a prophesied miracle. Many saw different things in the sky, from a revolving sun to Mary’s face. But no photos captured anything remarkable. A more likely explanation is that people saw what they expected and wanted to see.

Similarly, spirit photography in the mid-1800s led many people to see the ghosts of deceased loved ones in photographs, even though the photos were likely double exposures or hoaxes. But people deeply wanted to believe they could communicate with the dead, especially after so much loss during the Civil War.

In general, our brains focus on a subset of available data based on expectations. We tend to see what we expect or hope to see, ignoring information that doesn’t fit. Illusions like this are common and reveal how our needs shape what we perceive in the world.

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The human brain is not very good at processing all the information from our senses accurately. Instead, it relies on mental models based on past experience to make sense of what we see and hear.

When we look at things, our brains generate a model of that object - like a tree - based on past experience, and modify it slightly based on the current input. This is more efficient than processing all the details of the object.

Our brains give us the illusion that we are taking in everything around us, but in reality we are just updating our mental models.

We are good at filling in gaps when listening to language in noisy environments because our brains predict where conversations are going based on experience.

Experts can be worse at spotting things that are out of the ordinary because their experience makes them better at generating models. Their eyes are less reliable.

Magicians and con artists have long exploited humans’ tendency to generate stories and mental models that can trick ourselves. Con artists set up conditions for victims to trick themselves.

The “Church of Love” scam worked by generating an illusory world that tapped into victims’ loneliness and desire to be needed. It created religious and mystical themes to draw people in.

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Joseph Enriquez was a member of the Church of Love, a scheme run by Don Lowry that involved sending love letters to lonely people pretending to be from fictional women named “Angels.” Joseph fell in love with “Pamala,” one of the Angels, through her letters.

When Joseph finally met Pamala in person at a gathering organized by the Church of Love, he was thrilled. However, there were several other men there who were also in love with Pamala.

Though Joseph bought Pamala a gift and got the reaction he was hoping for, he was also unsettled by the realization that the other men were jealous of him.

Joseph’s situation was complex because the photos he had of “Pamala” actually showed a real woman named Pamala St. Charles, who worked for the Church of Love and organized the meeting. However, the letters he received were actually written by Don Lowry, not Pamala St. Charles.

Joseph did not ask Pamala at the meeting if she had written the letters, because questioning his relationship with her would mean calling into question things that gave his life meaning and stability. Losing that illusion was difficult for him.

After the meeting, Joseph heard that Pamala was in trouble due to investigations into the Church of Love. Instead of questioning his relationship with Pamala, Joseph doubled down on his belief in it. He found it hard to admit his attachments were based on lies.

So in summary, Joseph’s situation highlights how hard it can be for people to recognize and abandon beliefs that provide them meaning and stability, even in the face of evidence they may be false.

  • Joseph Enriquez testified at the trial in Peoria in defense of Pamala St. Charles and Don Lowry who were charged with mail fraud and conspiracy. He believed Pamala was innocent despite the evidence against her.

  • The prosecution argued that Don Lowry deliberately misled members to believe in the Angels and Retreat to profit from it. The defense argued it was just a fantasy like Santa Claus that didn’t actually harm anyone.

  • Some members testified that the Church of Love and Angels saved them from suicidal thoughts, indicating a deeper psychological connection.

  • Many members who testified for the defense still revealed that they deeply believed in the Angels and Retreat, despite claims it was just a fantasy.

  • Members who believed ranged from custodians to rocket scientists, showing it wasn’t just less educated people who fell for it.

  • Some members saw Chonda-Za as a utopian retirement community while others embraced the mystical aspects. Some hoped to actually visit the Retreat someday.

  • Ken Blanchard, a welder who testified for the prosecution, struggled to understand how he fell for the scheme despite being a very conservative and skeptical person. He was aware of the supernatural elements but still believed.

So in summary, while the prosecution argued Lowry deliberately deceived members, the testimony showed many members truly believed in and were psychologically connected to the Church of Love and Angels, indicating a more complex dynamic at play beyond simple fraud.

  • Don Lowry started the Church of Love, a mystical cult that claimed to have connections to Angels and mystical powers.

  • The Church attracted members with letters from supposed “Angels” who claimed to have supernatural abilities and promised spiritual enlightenment.

  • Members were asked to donate money for rituals and ceremonies conducted by the Church’s leader, Mother Maria.

  • One member, Blanchard, believed he would become a “Temple Master” in a future utopia called “Chonda-Za” created by the Church.

  • Lowry and Maria were eventually found guilty of fraud and money laundering and sentenced to prison. They initially fled but were later caught.

  • After his release from prison, Lowry acknowledged that what he did was wrong but also claimed that many members knew it was a fantasy but still sent money because they enjoyed it.

  • Lowry compared the Church members to lonely people who enjoyed the attention from the supposed “Angels”.

  • While Lowry included disclaimers at first, he dropped them when members ignored them, though he says the disclaimers would have given him legal protection.

In summary, the passage details how Don Lowry used mystical promises, fictional Angels, and ceremonies to defraud vulnerable people as part of the Church of Love cult he created.

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The passage discusses how the self-deceiving brain shapes not just individual behavior but also collective social phenomena like rituals, nations and religions.

It gives the example of a ritual in a Congolese village that was supposed to make people bulletproof. While such rituals may seem irrational, they are surprisingly resilient.

The passage argues that natural selection has shaped our brains not just to ensure our own survival but also the survival of our group. Our genes are shared with our tribesmen, so behaviors that benefit the group can be selected for.

In special circumstances, the self-deceiving brain makes us willing to sacrifice ourselves for the group. Rituals, nations and religions provide examples of this.

In summary, while reason tells us certain group behaviors may be irrational, the self-deceiving brain has evolved to prioritize the interests of the group over individual rational self-interest, helping explain phenomena like rituals and the power of identity and religion.

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• Bulletproofing rituals are based on false beliefs but can still offer psychological benefits that help groups survive existential threats. Belief in the rituals can boost morale, courage and community cohesion.

• In the case of the Congolese village of Bulambika, belief in a bulletproofing ritual emboldened villagers to fight back against Hutu militia raids rather than flee. Many villagers were killed but the persistent resistance eventually deterred further attacks, saving the village from extinction.

• The Ghost Dance ritual of Native Americans and the Boxers’ Armor of the Golden Bell in China also aimed to make practitioners invulnerable to bullets. However, both groups ultimately suffered military defeats when confronted by better armed opponents.

• Yet the rituals still provided psychological benefits that helped maintain group identity and unity. The Ghost Dance movement united Native American tribes, and the Boxer Rebellion spurred Chinese nationalism.

• Rituals are ubiquitous because they offer a way for humans to cope with an unpredictable world. Though the rituals themselves may not “work” literally, they can work psychologically to generate community, conformity and courage. This sometimes translates into actual benefits for survival.

• Archaeologists have found evidence that rituals may date back at least 70,000 years, suggesting they emerged around the time early humans developed abstract thinking and symbolic behaviors.

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The text discusses rituals, both religious and secular. While rituals are often associated with religion, they are ubiquitous across human societies, including among atheists and in everyday social interactions.

Many rituals place significant demands on participants through time, effort, repetition or physical sacrifice. Though some rituals may appear pointless, they serve important psychological and social functions. Rituals help people cope with anxiety, connect them to social groups, and instill a sense of belonging and social cohesion. Much of the social bonding effect of rituals comes from performing synchronized actions with others.

Even solitary rituals can benefit individuals by reducing anxiety and providing comfort. The text provides examples of athletes performing pre-game rituals as a coping mechanism to deal with performance anxiety.

In summary, though rituals may seem pointless on the surface, they serve important psychological functions by helping people cope with uncertainty and anxiety, as well as fostering social bonding within groups. The demands that rituals place on participants contribute to their effectiveness.

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  1. The ritual of the Tomb Guard walking the mat at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier represents the soldiers’ sacred duty to honor the unknown fallen soldiers.

  2. The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier is a place of reverence and reflection for many visitors to Arlington National Cemetery.

  3. The Latin phrase “Dulce et decorum est pro patria mori” means “It is sweet and fitting to die for one’s country” and reflects the sense of duty and sacrifice for one’s nation.

  4. Hundreds of thousands of veterans are buried at Arlington National Cemetery, representing the ultimate sacrifice made by soldiers in wars over the nation’s history.

  5. The passage poses the question of what makes people willing to sacrifice so much for their country. It suggests some potential answers: love of country, admiration for its ideals and beauty, and respect for those who are willing to make the ultimate sacrifice.

In summary, the passage focuses on how the ritual of the Tomb Guard at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier symbolizes the willingness of soldiers to sacrifice their lives for their country. It explores the sense of reverence and duty to one’s nation that underlies why people are willing to make the ultimate sacrifice.

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The author argues that nations are built on founding myths that are based more on fiction than fact. These myths serve an important purpose by fostering shared national identity and unity. However, they often ignore or gloss over inconvenient truths about a nation’s history.

The author uses examples from American history to illustrate this point. America’s ideals of freedom, equality and opportunity are central to its national mythos. But America’s history is also one of slavery, dispossession of indigenous peoples, and exploitation. Places like Arlington Cemetery and Independence Hall remind us of both America’s lofty ideals and messy realities.

The author notes that all nations rely on shared stories and narratives to instill patriotism and inspire sacrifice. A nation is essentially an “imagined community” bound by collective beliefs. National myths change over time to meet a nation’s evolving needs. Though sometimes untrue, these myths can still shape reality by giving a nation a common purpose.

In summary, the author argues that while national myths are often based on distortions and half-truths, they serve the useful function of fostering national unity and identity. Nevertheless, we should acknowledge how these myths gloss over or ignore parts of our history that complicate our positive self-image.

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Myths and stories play an important functional role in building nations and motivating people to take extraordinary action. Without the myths of nationalism, countries would lack the cohesion to accomplish great things or defend themselves. Groups like ISIS, though reprehensible, use similar myth-making techniques to recruit members and inspire action. They tell stories that tap into young people’s idealism, search for adventure, and desire for change. While religion may not be the primary motive, ISIS offers potential recruits a larger narrative about historical forces that have marginalized people like them. These sorts of revolutionary stories, while propaganda, psychologically operate in the same way as other revolutionary movements throughout history that relied on founding myths and narratives of injustice.

The key points are:

  1. Nations require myths and stories of nationalism to motivate citizens to make sacrifices for the collective good. These provide a deeper purpose beyond practical benefits.

  2. Groups like ISIS use storytelling and myth-making techniques to recruit members and inspire action. They appeal to human motives like idealism, adventure-seeking, and desire for change.

  3. Religion is often not the primary motive for ISIS recruits, especially those from Western backgrounds. They are often from marginalized groups who feel ISIS’ stories speak to their frustrations.

  4. Though propaganda, the myth-making of groups like ISIS operates similarly to other revolutionary movements, which also rely on founding myths and narratives of historical injustice.

• Sacred causes give people a sense of higher purpose and meaning. People are willing to make great sacrifices for sacred causes, whether religious or secular.

• ISIS fighters and Kurdish Peshmerga showed extremely high devotion to their causes, rooted in identity and aspirations. But the difference is in how widely adopted the myths were.

• Newer groups like ISIS show us how nations are built on myth-making and storytelling. Established nations seem inevitable but were once invented myths.

• People are willing to lay down their lives for sacred causes, whether fighting for a nation or a religious ideal. This gives them a form of immortality by subsuming their individual identities into the group.

• While national myths are useful for creating cohesion, they can also be false and unhinged. The Nazis are an example of how myths helped create the Third Reich but also contributed to its destruction.

• The Nazis chose annihilation over giving up their myths about the Jews, showing how foundational myths resist rational analysis despite being falsehoods. Stability requires believing myths are eternal truths.

• Myths and fictions persist not because we are stupid, but because we are vulnerable, flawed beings in need of higher purpose and meaning.

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  1. The ancient Egyptians were obsessed with the afterlife. They went to great lengths to prepare for the next world, building elaborate tombs and mummifying their dead.

  2. They believed the afterlife was similar to this world, stocking tombs with luxuries and necessities for the next life. The Book of the Dead provided instructions for navigating the afterlife.

  3. Pharaohs like Ramesses II built huge tombs in the Valley of the Kings to ensure their souls’ survival after death. They sought immortality through their monuments, statues and other relics.

  4. Despite Egyptians’ obsession, an afterlife is a universal human desire. Religions offer beliefs about what happens after death.

  5. While some see religious beliefs as delusions or neuroses, others argue they fulfill deep human needs. Theories like terror management suggest religions arose to help people cope with the reality of death.

  6. Overall, the passage examines the Egyptian pursuit of immortality to illustrate the human desire for continuity beyond physical death, which religions aim to fulfill through their beliefs and rituals.

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  1. Humans are aware of their own mortality but struggle to accept the inevitability of death. This creates fear and anxiety in humans.

  2. Terror management theory proposes that humans develop mental defenses and illusions to manage the terror of death awareness. This includes religious beliefs and enhancing self-esteem.

  3. Experiments show that reminders of death lead people to cling more strongly to cultural beliefs, social norms, and identity markers that offer a sense of permanence and continuity.

  4. Reminders of death can paradoxically lead people to engage in riskier behaviors that are closely tied to their identity.

  5. Self-deception may have evolved as a way for humans to cope with the awareness of death.

  6. Philosophers have discussed the “mortality paradox”: humans understand they will die but cannot truly imagine being dead. This leads to “immortality narratives” like the belief in lifespan extension through elixirs, magic, or religion.

  7. In summary, terror management theory posits that the fear of death and nonexistence drives much of human illusion, self-deception, and adherence to cultural worldviews.

  1. Many religious traditions offer narratives of immortality to provide comfort in the face of death. These include literal immortality on earth, resurrection of the body, soul transmigration, and living on through legacy and memory.

  2. These narratives help soothe the fear of death and line up with terror management theory. When people are confronted with death, they tend to believe in religious ideas of an afterlife even more strongly.

  3. Religions also provide a solution to the challenges of regulating behavior and maintaining cooperation in large groups of strangers. Punitive gods and beliefs in punishment after death were a way to enforce moral codes and get people to act ethically and in the interests of the group.

  4. While religion is not necessary for morality, it has proven to be an effective system for large-scale cooperation by providing shared moral codes and norms. Religions with functional beliefs that promoted group success were more likely to survive and spread.

That covers the major points discussed in the summary, focusing on how religious ideas around immortality and morality help address human existential concerns and the problem of cooperation in large groups. Let me know if you would like me to expand or modify any part of this summary.

The passage discusses evolent ways in which religion can benefit individuals and society, counter to the miserly stance one might take - just like Scrooge in A Christmas Carol.

It talks about how religious rituals, though sometimes strange and costly, can help promote group cohesion and solidarity. The more ritualistic and costly the religious requirements, the harder it is for people to fake being religious for selfish gain. This makes religions effective at enforcing ethical behavior and group norms.

Religion also provides mental health benefits for individuals. Studies show that religious people tend to be happier and live longer. Though correlation does not prove causation, some studies control for confounding factors and still find a positive link between religiosity and wellbeing.

In summary, the passage argues that religion evolved not just to explain the unknown, but to provide very real benefits through social mechanisms that fostered cooperation and group survival. Though in decline today in some places, religion still serves useful functions where they are needed most.

• Julie Irwin Zimmerman initially reacted strongly to a viral video showing Covington Catholic High School students clashing with a Native American man. She interpreted it as an example of racism and bullying.

• After seeing longer videos and more context, she realized the initial video was misleading and the situation was more nuanced. The students had been accosted first by a religious group and the Native American man was part of a larger activist group.

• Zimmerman wrote an article admitting her initial reaction was hasty. This was shared widely by conservatives who saw it as proof that liberals jump to conclusions.

• Zimmerman felt she had betrayed her liberal allies by admitting she was wrong. Yet she saw being honest and humble as virtues she wanted to teach her son.

• Psychologist Jennifer Whitson’s research found that when people lack a sense of control, they try to gain it perceptually. This likely contributed to Zimmerman’s initial outrage over the misleading video.

The key takeaways are that viral videos and social media often lack context, leading people to jump to conclusions that confirm their biases; admitting mistakes and changing one’s views based on new evidence can be seen as a betrayal by one’s own political tribe; and the desire for a sense of control can drive perceptual reactions to misleading information.

  1. Psychological biases and group dynamics can explain why people reach for unfounded theories and conspiracy theories. Providing people with ways to boost self-esteem and feel in control can help reduce these biases.

  2. Progress often comes from meeting people’s underlying emotional needs, rather than only providing data and evidence. False beliefs often fulfill emotional needs for comfort, security, and group approval.

  3. Religion and mythology can help motivate people to act for the greater good, like tackling climate change. The stories don’t need to be literally true to be meaningful and inspiring.

  4. Religious texts can be seen as akin to great novels that move and inspire people, even if they are not factually true. The stories can have power and resonance regardless of their truth claims.

In summary, the key takeaways are that emotions, biases, and group dynamics drive many beliefs and behaviors, so addressing underlying needs and providing meaning and motivation can be more effective than pure facts and reason. Mythology, stories and religion can serve useful purposes despite not being literally true, by fulfilling emotional needs and inspiring people to act for the greater good.

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The feature called “The Unsung Hero” at the end of each podcast episode is designed to recognize someone who contributes to the episode but whose work is not explicitly mentioned.

The author thanks numerous individuals who helped make the book possible. This includes:

  • The editor Matt Weiland who kept the authors hopeful and positive despite their doubts and false starts.

  • The literary agents Laurie Liss and Gail Ross who provided good counsel.

  • The hundreds of researchers whose insights fill the book’s pages. Specific researchers are mentioned.

  • Individuals who shared their personal narratives that bring the scientific ideas to life. Several people are named.

  • Colleagues at NPR, the Washington Post and the Philadelphia Inquirer who helped shape the author’s thinking and reporting. Several key colleagues are mentioned.

  • Friends and family who provided support, especially the author’s wife Ashwini who makes everything possible.

In summary, the passage expresses gratitude to the many individuals behind the scenes who contributed in various ways to making the book a reality. It recognizes the critical role of “unsung heroes” in any creative endeavor.

  1. Our capacity for self-deception, including illusion, optimism, and delusion, may not be a bug but a feature. It could be an evolutionary adaptation produced by natural selection that confers advantages.

  2. Self-deception can produce benefits like optimism that improves health and success. Positive illusions about ourselves and others can improve relationships and motivation.

  3. However, self-deception can also lead to problems like mistaken beliefs and false narratives that persist despite evidence. Wishful thinking and confirmation bias reinforce illusions.

  4. Some forms of self-deception may serve an adaptive role in the short term but become maladaptive over the long run. Magical thinking and false beliefs can persist for a long time.

In summary, the author argues that human self-deception, though sometimes useful, is a double-edged sword. While it may be an evolutionary adaptation, it can produce illusions that hinder clear thinking and evidence-based decision making. But the capacity for recognizing illusion and using reason to correct false beliefs may also be an adaptive feature of human cognition.

The key takeaway is that self-deception is a complex phenomenon with both benefits and costs for individuals and groups, and its evolutionary origins and functions are still not fully understood.

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Here is a summary of the key points regarding rituals, magical beliefs, and soldiers preparing for battle:

• Rituals and magical thinking were common among soldiers preparing for battle throughout history. They performed rituals and made sacrifices to the gods, believing it would bring them good luck and protection in the upcoming fight.

• Rituals and magical beliefs gave soldiers a sense of control and agency in an otherwise chaotic and unpredictable situation. Even if the rituals were meaningless, performing them made the soldiers feel like they were doing something to improve their chances of survival.

• Rituals and shared beliefs helped build camaraderie and group cohesion among the soldiers. Participating in the same rituals bonded them together and created a shared identity as they prepared to face danger as a unit.

• Magical thinking and superstition thrive in situations of uncertainty, ambiguity, and lack of control. Warfare exemplifies all of these, so it is not surprising that magical beliefs would be prevalent among soldiers preparing for combat.

• While modern soldiers may not overtly perform rituals or make sacrifices, psychological research shows that even today, soldiers engage in habits, routines, and “good luck” behaviors before battle to reduce anxiety and boost confidence. These behaviors serve a similar psychological function as the rituals performed by earlier soldiers.

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The texts cover a wide range of topics related to rituals, placebos, illusions, and self-deception. Some key themes are:

• Rituals and religious practices can have psychological and social benefits. They can increase group cohesion, reduce anxiety, and provide meaning and purpose. However, they can also perpetuate false beliefs and biases.

• Placebos have been shown to have real physiological and psychological effects through expectations, conditioning, and social factors. Placebo interventions have been used successfully in some clinical trials.

• Positive illusions and self-deception can improve well-being, relationship satisfaction, and coping. They tend to become more common and useful with age. However, they can also interfere with problem solving and accurate perception of reality.

• Religion, spirituality, and belief in the supernatural are connected to coping with existential concerns like death. They can provide comfort and meaning in the face of the unknown.

• Deception and lying are common human behaviors, yet people tend to rate themselves as more honest than average. There are both social costs and benefits to lying.

• The effectiveness of placebos, rituals, and illusions depends on factors like context, individual differences, desire for control, and cultural influences.

That gives a broad summary of some of the key points discussed across the range of texts provided. Let me know if you would like me to expand on or modify any part of this summary.

Here is a summary of the key points discussed in the texts:

• Humans have an innate tendency to self-deceive and create illusions. This may have evolved as an adaptive response that helped with survival and reproduction.

• Self-deception can take many forms, from motivated reasoning and denying threats to selective memory and perceiving patterns that do not actually exist.

• Religion, rituals, and group membership can provide a sense of meaning, purpose, and immortality that helps buffer against existential anxieties like the fear of death. However, they can also involve forms of self-deception.

• While some level of self-deception may be necessary or beneficial, taken to extremes it can lead to problems like conspiracy theories, violence, and inaction on critical issues.

• The ability to distinguish illusion from reality is important, though challenging. Being aware of cognitive biases and the limits of human perception is a first step toward more objective thinking.

• Lies and deception can sometimes have benevolent motives or functions, but honesty and truthfulness are generally considered more virtuous. However, nuanced judgments are often needed in concrete situations.

That covers the main themes discussed across the various texts regarding illusions, self-deception, religion, rituals, lying, and the role of illusion versus reality in human life. Let me know if you would like me to expand or modify the summary in any way.

Nigel Ford | Series: A Penguin Random House book

Identifiers: LCCN 2020049802 | ISBN 9780393545803 (hardcover)

Subjects: LCSH: Self-deception. | Reason. | BISAC: PHILOSOPHY / Epistemology. |

PSYCHOLOGY / General. | SOCIAL SCIENCE / Criminology.

Classification: LCC BF697.5 .V43 2021 | DDC 153.8/3—dc23

LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2020049802

ISBN 9780393545810 (ebook)

W. W. Norton & Company, Inc., 500 Fifth Avenue, New York, N.Y. 10110

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Contents

  1. Cover

  2. Title

  3. Contents

  4. 1 Skepticism

  5. 2 Deception

  6. 3 Illusion

  7. 4 Truth and Love

  8. 5 Belief and Health

  9. 6 Ritual

  10. 7 Myth

  11. 8 Sacrifice

  12. 9 Death

  13. 10 Delusion

  14. 11 Wonder

  15. Acknowledgments

  16. Notes

  17. Index

  18. Also by Shankar Vedantam

  19. Copyright

Here is a summary of the book:

• The book examines the topics of deception, self-deception, truthfulness, and delusions from a psychological perspective. • It likely incorporates research and case studies to illustrate how and why people deceive themselves and others. • The author likely argues that understanding deceit and self-deception is important for achieving greater honesty and insight. • The book contains bibliographical references and an index to provide further resources for readers who want to explore the topics in more depth. • The key topics covered are deception, self-deception, truthfulness, and delusions. The author examines these phenomena through a psychological lens. • The intended audience seems to be general readers interested in psychology, human behavior, and the quest for truth. • The main purpose is to provide insight into the complexities of deception, falsehoods, and delusions, and how self-deception in particular shapes people’s perspectives in flawed ways. • In summary, the book seeks to explore the psychological mechanisms behind deception and delusion, and the challenges of achieving genuine truthfulness and self-knowledge.

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