FAST SUMMARY - Presence_ Bringing Your Boldest Self to Yo - Amy Cuddy

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• The author suffered a traumatic brain injury that caused severe cognitive and physical challenges. Despite difficulties, she graduated college and has become an author and speaker. Her message is that presence, authenticity and perseverance can overcome adversity.

• Presence requires believing in yourself, accepting imperfections, and focusing on experiences over judgment. The alternative is disconnecting from the present moment by dwelling on the past or future. Presence leads to confidence, passion, and authentic connections.

• Nonverbal behaviors like facial expressions, tone of voice, and body language convey meaning. When verbal and nonverbal behaviors align, we seem most authentic and compelling. Lack of alignment signals deceit or discomfort.

• There is no single “true self” but rather a complex, dynamic self shaped by roles and contexts. Our “authentic best self” represents when we feel most alive and true to our values. Believing in this self builds confidence and presence.

• Expressing our authentic selves through presence and performance is key to success and well-being. Leaders and performers exemplify presence. It comes from feeling seen, accepting imperfections, preparing mentally, and authenticity.

•Trust, warmth and authenticity are more important than competence alone for influence and success. Presence - showing up fully, listening without judgment and engaging authentically - builds trust and partnership.

•Feeling powerless undermines confidence, health and performance. Regaining a sense of power and self-efficacy combats negative effects. Power comes from seeing opportunities, taking risks, building competence, and choosing to perceive influence over situations.

•The haka, a traditional Māori war dance, shows the New Zealand rugby team’s power, confidence and cultural heritage. Powerful body language, like the haka displays, may have biological roots as well as cultural meaning. Both signal strength, status and intimidation.

•The key message is that authenticity, perseverance and a sense of personal power can overcome adversity and self-doubt. Believing in yourself and your abilities, accepting imperfections, and engaging authentically with others leads to presence, trust, well-being and success. Focusing on experiences over judgment is key.

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• Our body language and physical expressions significantly impact our psychological and emotional experience. Powerful, expansive postures can make us feel more confident and powerful, while contractive postures foster feelings of powerlessness and vulnerability.

• Power posing activates feelings of confidence and empowerment. Studies show it increases testosterone, decreases cortisol, raises pain tolerance, makes weights seem lighter, and leads to better performance and perseverance. Expansive postures cultivate an “approach orientation” linked to positive outcomes.

• The effects of power posing apply whether poses are physically acted out or just imagined. Both actual and imagined power posing can increase confidence and feelings of power while decreasing feelings of threat. The impacts apply across physical and virtual spaces.

• Cultural differences exist in how we interpret and respond to specific postures and expressions. But research suggests the overall effect of expansive versus contractive posture on confidence and empowerment applies broadly across cultures. Both Americans and East Asians felt more powerful after open, expansive poses, for example.

• Dominant displays of body language often backfire and damage rapport and connection. The most compelling and confident people remain relaxed, open, and focused on synchronizing with others. Confidence comes through when you feel at ease, not when posturing to appear confident.

• Simple changes in posture and body language can lead to meaningful psychological and social effects. With practice, we can harness the mind-body connection to cultivate an empowered yet open and connecting presence. Expanding our body expands our mindset and capacity for positive action and relationships.

• Movement and expression are essential for wellbeing. Lying still for a long time can foster feelings of tiredness and depression, while moving around lifts mood and energy. Our physical state directly impacts our mental and emotional state.

• In summary, the body and mind are deeply interconnected. How we hold and move our body significantly influences how we think, feel, perceive, and engage with the world. We can leverage this connection through intentional use of powerful yet open and connecting body language and posture.

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  • Adopting confident body postures, or "power posing," before difficult social interactions helps people bring out their most confident and empowered selves. Power posing causes hormonal changes that increase confidence and feelings of power.

  • Making small, gradual changes, or "nudges," is an effective way to build lasting habits and personal growth. Nudges build on each other over time through incremental progress. Slowing down in stressful situations allows a more rational and empowered response.

  • Stories demonstrate how small tweaks to body language and mindset can significantly impact outcomes in challenging situations. Power posing, facing fears gradually, and maintaining a "growth mindset" helped people thrive in various difficulties.

  • Power posing in particular helped a writer get a contract, students achieve more, athletes win, a teacher's daughter overcome anxiety, a physics teacher's students excel, a young girl face her fear of dolls, a student participate in class, Olympic swimmers cope with anxiety, combat veterans, domestic abuse survivors, homeless individuals, and others overcome difficulties.

  • One woman, Kristin, used power posing to find courage to stand up to her boss's sexual harassment, gaining an apology and changed behavior. Her story shows how we can tap into inner strength and confidence to stand up for ourselves and others, even when we feel powerless.

  • In summary, small changes to body and mindset can unlock an empowered self to act with courage and achieve great things. Power posing, facing fears gradually, maintaining a growth mindset, and nudging yourself forward help overcome difficulties and thrive. We all have inner strength we can draw upon to stand up for what is right.

The key takeaway is that adopting powerful body postures and making incremental improvements to mindset and behavior cultivate empowerment from within to bring out your best self and act courageously in any situation. Power posing in particular can quickly elevate confidence and feelings of power to yield life-changing results. Overall, small tweaks can lead to big changes.

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